Remember when meeting someone meant bumping into them in a café or being introduced by a friend? Now it starts with a profile that reads: “6’4″, Michelin-star chef, part-time brain surgeon, RAF pilot, property developer, model, philanthropist and dog whisperer.” Really? If dating apps reflected real life, every hospital in the country would have closed… Read More Welcome to Online Dating… Where Everyone Is Apparently a Brain Surgeon

History and everyday life are full of people who appeared charming, generous and respectable while privately causing harm. Psychologists sometimes refer to this as impression management—carefully controlling how others see you while behaving very differently behind closed doors. Fake kindness is not simply being polite. It is kindness with an agenda: to gain admiration, control, power… Read More Fake Kindness: When Goodness Is a Performance

You can pray every day and still be cruel. You can sit in the front row of every place of worship and still make someone cry when you get home. You can donate thousands to charity and still withhold kindness from the people who need it most. You can speak beautifully about truth, honesty and… Read More The Kindness That Nobody Sees

430 views in 24 hours on Facebook alone is a sign that the subject resonated with people, but it doesn’t necessarily mean everyone viewing it has experienced abuse themselves. There are several psychological and social reasons why posts like this attract attention. Looking at the image, it appears to be a handwritten letter beginning: “I… Read More 430 Views in 24 hours