Mental health refers to a person’s emotional, psychological, and social well-being, encompassing the ability to handle stress, relate to others, make decisions, and navigate the challenges of life. It influences how individuals think, feel, and act, contributing to the overall balance and quality of their lives. Mental health is essential at every stage of life, from childhood and adolescence through adulthood.
How to Come Out of a Divorce Looking Like You Just Walked Off a Spa Commercial (While Secretly Surviving Chaos) Divorce: the ultimate life plot twist. You’ve navigated restraining orders, financial headaches, and emotional rollercoasters, yet here you are — looking like you just stepped out of a magazine shoot. Friends who haven’t seen you… Read More Emerging from a divorce with strength and sanity
Experiencing pressure to sell personal assets like your car or family heirlooms, and then having the money placed into a joint account without proper repayment, is a serious warning sign of financial manipulation and control. These actions often indicate an attempt to gain control over your finances and assets under the guise of partnership or… Read More Why Family Heirlooms Matter
Kindness is a gift, gratitude is a mirror, and boundaries are armor. Stay generous and compassionate, but know your value — you are not a free resource, you are a human with limits, feelings, and needs. Kindness is a gift, gratitude is a mirror, and boundaries are armor. These three principles form the foundation of… Read More Kindness Is a Gift
When history repeats itself and a family that once doubted or dismissed abuse finds themselves facing the same painful situation again, the emotional and psychological impact can be devastating. This recurrence often exposes deep patterns of denial, disbelief, and unresolved trauma within the family system. Families that previously did not believe victims of abuse may… Read More The Pain of Repeated Abuse in Disbelieving Families
When an abuser witnesses the impact of their own behavior on their children or grandchildren, especially in a courtroom setting where they observe further abuse unfolding, a complex and profound emotional and psychological dynamic emerges. This scenario reveals layers of denial, accountability, and the cyclical nature of abuse that can affect families deeply. Abuse often… Read More The Moment of Reckoning: An Abuser Witnessing Their Own Legacy
Life often presents moments when the best course of action is to pause, breathe, and let things unfold naturally. In a fast-paced world filled with constant demands and pressures, learning to sit back, relax, and go with the flow is a powerful practice that can transform your experience and outlook. Embracing the Flow of Life… Read More Trusting a Higher Power
1. Emotionally immature behaviour This is when someone struggles to regulate emotions or take responsibility for their impact on others. Common signs: How it feels to you:You may feel like you’re constantly “managing” their reactions rather than having an equal relationship. 2. Entitled behaviour patterns This involves expecting special treatment or exemptions from rules that… Read More How to Recognise Common Harmful Relational Patterns
If an abuser’s new partner comes to you asking questions about your past, your reaction will usually depend on one key question: Is this about their safety and understanding—or are you being pulled back into something emotionally destabilising? Here are a few common scenarios and how you might respond. 1. They seem genuine, grounded, and… Read More Questions and enquiries
In psychology, “sadistic traits” refer to patterns where a person may derive satisfaction from another person’s discomfort, distress, or humiliation. These traits exist on a spectrum and are not always obvious or extreme. In everyday life, they may show up in subtle relational dynamics rather than overt cruelty. It’s important to approach this topic with… Read More Understanding Harmful Interpersonal Patterns (Including Sadistic Traits)
Sadism isn’t just “being mean” or “cold.” Clinically and psychologically, it refers to a pattern where a person derives pleasure, satisfaction, or a sense of control from causing others discomfort, humiliation, or suffering. It exists on a spectrum—most people don’t meet any clinical threshold, but some traits can show up in everyday behaviour in milder… Read More Sadism
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 