Tag: MENTAL HEALTH

Mental health refers to a person’s emotional, psychological, and social well-being, encompassing the ability to handle stress, relate to others, make decisions, and navigate the challenges of life. It influences how individuals think, feel, and act, contributing to the overall balance and quality of their lives. Mental health is essential at every stage of life, from childhood and adolescence through adulthood.

A Delayed House Sale Is Frustrating. A Delayed Divorce Is Something Else Entirely.

People often ask how I’m coping with yet another delay. The truth is, the delayed house sale is frustrating, but I can cope with that. The delayed divorce is another matter entirely. A house is bricks and mortar. It represents money, paperwork, and practical decisions. Of course, delays are stressful, especially when you’re trying to… Read More A Delayed House Sale Is Frustrating. A Delayed Divorce Is Something Else Entirely.

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The Backup Drive: Recovering More Than Files

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

When I recovered the backup drive after the computer had been wiped, I wasn’t simply recovering digital files. I was recovering part of my own history. For years, I had kept documents, photographs, correspondence, and records that helped me make sense of what I had lived through. Some of those files became important evidence during… Read More The Backup Drive: Recovering More Than Files

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Waiting for the Final Chapter Before I Write the Next One

People often ask me when I’m going to write my book. My answer is always the same. I’m waiting for the divorce to be finalised. For a long time, I simply wasn’t ready to write it. After decades of living with abuse, my priority wasn’t telling my story—it was healing from it. Trauma recovery takes… Read More Waiting for the Final Chapter Before I Write the Next One

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“You Look Different”: The Neuroscience of Finally Feeling Safe

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One of the most unexpected parts of healing has not been what I see in myself, but what other people see in me. Recently, friends, family, and even people I haven’t seen for a while have been making similar comments. “You look so much more relaxed.” “You seem more confident.” “You’re glowing.” “You smile so… Read More “You Look Different”: The Neuroscience of Finally Feeling Safe

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“He Never Wanted Me to Be Happy”: The Psychology and Neuroscience Behind This Behaviour

During a conversation this morning, someone said something that resonated deeply with me: “He never wanted you to be happy. He was so miserable with his own life and himself long before he met you that he was determined to destroy any happiness you experienced.” Whether or not we can ever know another person’s true… Read More “He Never Wanted Me to Be Happy”: The Psychology and Neuroscience Behind This Behaviour

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When Abuse Is Minimized: The Hidden Psychological Harm

Trauma can leave survivors questioning their own memories, doubting their judgement, and wondering whether what they experienced was “bad enough” to matter. This self-doubt is often the result of years of gaslighting, manipulation, and coercive control, where the perpetrator repeatedly distorts reality until the survivor begins to mistrust their own thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The psychological… Read More When Abuse Is Minimized: The Hidden Psychological Harm

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Why Having Abuse Recognised Matters: The Psychology and Neuroscience of Acknowledgement

For many survivors, divorce is one chapter. A financial settlement is another. Neither of those processes necessarily addresses what happened behind closed doors. Legal matters determine how assets are divided, where people live, and how finances are resolved. They do not automatically acknowledge years of coercive control, emotional abuse, psychological manipulation, intimidation, or violence. For many… Read More Why Having Abuse Recognised Matters: The Psychology and Neuroscience of Acknowledgement

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Can an Abuse Case Be Reopened in Another Country?

Many survivors believe that once a case has been closed, or if no charges were brought, there is no possibility of justice. That is not always true. In today’s world, many abusive relationships cross international borders. Couples relocate for work, retire abroad, or move between countries during long-term relationships. Abuse may occur in one country… Read More Can an Abuse Case Be Reopened in Another Country?

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Possible Warning Signs of Financial Abuse and Withholding

Financial abuse is not defined by how much money a family has. It is defined by how money is used to create power, dependence, fear, or inequality. Relationship psychologists recognise that financial abuse often develops gradually. It is the repeated pattern—not a single event—that matters. Possible warning signs include: From a psychological perspective, financial abuse is… Read More Possible Warning Signs of Financial Abuse and Withholding

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