It’s been a journey — one that’s opened my eyes, tested my strength, and revealed who truly stands by me. And now, I don’t have to say much. Because when you live in a small town… things have a way of surfacing all on their own.
These are just a few of the messages I’ve received from people who know us both:
💬 “I’m sure you’ll find out soon enough — everyone seems to know everyone else’s business in this town.”
💬 “People do like to gossip… it will come out sooner or later.”
💬 “Why would he do that when he has you? A wonderful woman, a gorgeous home, and a beautiful family?”
💬 “You guys have been together a long time — what a shit!”
These are the words of people who aren’t fooled. People who’ve watched from the sidelines. People who see what’s really been going on — even if he and his family still choose to live in denial.
Then there’s this message, too familiar to so many survivors:
💬 “Contact with any of Paul’s family is negative and destructive. I hope you’ve sent any messages from his sister to your lawyer. Let them deal with her.”
💬 “Why do you even have a message from his sister? We advised you to block Paul and his entire family.”
💬 “Why haven’t you done that yet?”
These comments aren’t cruel. They’re protective.
Because time and time again, survivors are retraumatized by the ongoing attempts to stay relevant, to control, or to manipulate even after the relationship ends.
Blocking isn’t about bitterness.
It’s about boundaries.
It’s about protecting your peace.
So Let Me Be Clear:
🔒 I will no longer entertain destructive contact from anyone in his circle.
🧾 Any communication, especially the kind that’s loaded with threats, manipulation, or rewritten history, goes straight to my lawyer.
🧍♀️ I am no longer the woman who tolerates disrespect, subtle digs, or false stories.
🌱 I am building a life rooted in truth, peace, and dignity.
The Town Is Watching — And They See.
While they cling to denial, the rest of the world is watching them self-destruct with their own choices.
Let them.
I don’t have to defend myself — the people who know me, know my character.
They’ve seen who I really am.
And now, they see him clearly, too.
I Stand Tall In My Truth.
And to anyone else walking this path: don’t let the noise distract you. The right people already see the truth. You don’t have to fight for it — you just have to stand in it.
#TruthAlwaysWins
#BoundariesAreProtection
#SurvivorStrength
#LetThemTalk
#DignityOverDrama
— Linda C J Turner
Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment
