Love is a complex and multifaceted emotion that encompasses a range of feelings, attitudes, and behaviors. It can be experienced in various forms, including romantic love, familial love, platonic love, and self-love. Here are some key aspects of love:
While unpacking boxes after my move, I came across some handwritten notes from my former husband. They read: “I will always love you.” “You are the only one I ever wanted.” “You never deserved it. I am sorry.” I paused for a long time. If those words were true, why were they followed by years… Read More When Words and Actions Don’t Match
For the first time in many years, I feel calm. I feel loved. I feel peaceful. After months of endless paperwork, legal documents, bills, and administrative tasks that often seemed unnecessary, I have finally reached a place where I can simply breathe. The silence is no longer uncomfortable—it is healing. People often ask me whether… Read More Peace Is Priceless: Why Some Divorces Cost Far More Than Money
Today, I paused for a moment and realised just how far I have come. I am incredibly proud of myself for finding the courage to walk away from a life that no longer reflected who I was. Leaving was not easy. It took years of questioning myself, rebuilding my confidence and believing that a different… Read More Walking Away Was the Bravest Decision I Ever Made
This week has been one of the happiest and most meaningful weeks I have experienced in many years. It was my first full week in my new home. A home that, from the moment I walked through the front door eight months ago, felt as though it was waiting for me. I remember thinking, “This is… Read More Home Is More Than a Place – It’s Where Healing Begins
Throughout my life, I have been known for my tenacity, resourcefulness and resilience. Those qualities have carried me through some of the darkest chapters of my life. They have helped me survive when others believed I would give up. They have given me the strength to rebuild, to heal and to find peace. Now, those… Read More Tenacity, Resourcefulness and Resilience
When I began documenting what had happened to me, I made a promise to myself. No stone would be left unturned. Every document would be preserved. Every photograph. Every medical record. Every psychological assessment. Every email. Every text message. Every WhatsApp conversation. Every witness. Every piece of evidence. If it is relevant, it deserves to… Read More No Stone Left Unturned
Trust is not built on promises. It is built on honesty. On consistency. On knowing that the person sitting opposite you is living in the same reality that you are. Without truth, trust has nowhere to take root. Relationships Are Built on Shared Reality Every healthy relationship depends on one simple foundation: We both agree… Read More Trust Cannot Grow Where Truth Is Absent
As I’ve been packing to move house, I’ve found myself looking through boxes of old photographs. It’s remarkable how much a photograph can reveal. Not just where you were. But who you were becoming. At first glance, I was smiling in many of them. But when I looked more closely, I saw something I hadn’t noticed… Read More The Woman in the Photographs
There is a lesson I wish someone had impressed upon me many years ago. Don’t rush into another relationship simply because the last one has ended. Give your mind time. Give your body time. Give your nervous system time. Because when we haven’t healed, we are far more likely to overlook things we would normally… Read More Don’t Rush Into the Next Relationship. Heal First.
One of the greatest lessons I have learned is this: Never apologise for expecting a kind, generous and loving life. For years, I was told I had been “spoilt” because of the way I had been brought up. The irony is that what I experienced growing up wasn’t extravagance. It was simply normal. My mother was… Read More Never Lower Your Standards to Fit Someone Else’s Limitations
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 