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Love is a complex and multifaceted emotion that encompasses a range of feelings, attitudes, and behaviors. It can be experienced in various forms, including romantic love, familial love, platonic love, and self-love. Here are some key aspects of love:

Moving on: Embracing a fresh start by letting go of the past

Moving house is often more than just a physical relocation—it’s a deeply emotional journey, especially when it involves sorting through years of shared memories and possessions. For many, the process of packing and unpacking can feel like reliving the past repeatedly, stirring up complex feelings and unresolved attachments. After packing and unpacking multiple times, the… Read More Moving on: Embracing a fresh start by letting go of the past

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Living with Anxious Attachment

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment

Many people find themselves trapped in relationships where their anxious attachment style keeps them holding on longer than is healthy, hoping things will improve. This pattern often leads to emotional pain, especially in abusive relationships. After years of struggle and self-reflection, healing is possible. Here’s a personal journey and insight into why recognizing and moving… Read More Living with Anxious Attachment

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Emerging from a divorce with strength and sanity

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How to Come Out of a Divorce Looking Like You Just Walked Off a Spa Commercial (While Secretly Surviving Chaos) Divorce: the ultimate life plot twist. You’ve navigated restraining orders, financial headaches, and emotional rollercoasters, yet here you are — looking like you just stepped out of a magazine shoot. Friends who haven’t seen you… Read More Emerging from a divorce with strength and sanity

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Mean Before, Mean After: Why Marriage Isn’t a Magic Makeover

Many people enter marriage hoping their partner will change for the better, especially if they’ve experienced cruelty or meanness during the relationship. However, the truth is that mean behavior doesn’t magically vanish after the wedding or even after divorce. Some women hold on to the hope that this timethings will be different, but cruelty and meanness… Read More Mean Before, Mean After: Why Marriage Isn’t a Magic Makeover

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How to Recognise Common Harmful Relational Patterns

1. Emotionally immature behaviour This is when someone struggles to regulate emotions or take responsibility for their impact on others. Common signs: How it feels to you:You may feel like you’re constantly “managing” their reactions rather than having an equal relationship. 2. Entitled behaviour patterns This involves expecting special treatment or exemptions from rules that… Read More How to Recognise Common Harmful Relational Patterns

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Understanding Harmful Interpersonal Patterns (Including Sadistic Traits)

In psychology, “sadistic traits” refer to patterns where a person may derive satisfaction from another person’s discomfort, distress, or humiliation. These traits exist on a spectrum and are not always obvious or extreme. In everyday life, they may show up in subtle relational dynamics rather than overt cruelty. It’s important to approach this topic with… Read More Understanding Harmful Interpersonal Patterns (Including Sadistic Traits)

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Stop Calling People “Ugly Inside and Out”

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Let’s be honest—when someone hurts you, lies to you, manipulates you, or drains your peace, your brain wants a simple label. Something neat. Something final. Something like: “ugly inside and out.” It feels satisfying in the moment. Like you’ve boxed the whole thing up and put it on a shelf called never again. But here’s the uncomfortable… Read More Stop Calling People “Ugly Inside and Out”

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A decent human being

A decent human being is generally understood as someone who consistently behaves in ways that preserve dignity, safety, and fairness for themselves and others — especially when there is no personal gain or when it’s inconvenient. In practical psychological terms, it tends to include: 1. Basic respect for others 2. Empathy and emotional awareness 3. Accountability 4.… Read More A decent human being

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