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Love is a complex and multifaceted emotion that encompasses a range of feelings, attitudes, and behaviors. It can be experienced in various forms, including romantic love, familial love, platonic love, and self-love. Here are some key aspects of love:

Two Marriages, Two Completely Different Worlds: From Love, Family and Laughter to Control, Abuse and Loneliness

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How did a woman who once experienced such a full and colourful family life find herself in a second marriage where so much of what made life enjoyable had disappeared? A personal reflection on relationships, psychology, emotional vulnerability and the importance of recognising what love should feel like. Sometimes, when I look back at my… Read More Two Marriages, Two Completely Different Worlds: From Love, Family and Laughter to Control, Abuse and Loneliness

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When Love Meets Cruelty: Rebound Relationships, Abuse and the Cost of Losing Yourself

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The writer reflects on entering a second marriage before healing from the first, leading to a relationship marked by control, physical and financial abuse, and psychological manipulation. They stress that abuse is never the victim’s responsibility, encourage recovery and self-love before dating again, and emphasize boundaries, independence, safety, and recognizing unhealthy dynamics.… Read More When Love Meets Cruelty: Rebound Relationships, Abuse and the Cost of Losing Yourself

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When Love Is No Longer Available: Love, Betrayal and the Changing Nature of Relationships

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

You can have an enormous capacity to love, but that does not mean someone will always have access to it. There is a moment in my first marriage that I have never forgotten. Following an argument, I was playing with my two Jack Russell dogs when my husband watched me and made an observation that… Read More When Love Is No Longer Available: Love, Betrayal and the Changing Nature of Relationships

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And then there are those who choose the image over happiness…

RICH MISERABLE PERSON; POOR HAPPY PERSON

The passage challenges people who prioritize money, status, possessions, and appearances over genuine happiness and fulfillment. It emphasizes that financial comfort and social connections cannot guarantee love, peace, or meaningful relationships. Readers are encouraged to choose freedom, authenticity, independence, and a life aligned with their own values rather than others’ expectations.… Read More And then there are those who choose the image over happiness…

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At Last! Someone Who Means What They Say and Says What They Mean.

Isn’t it refreshing when you finally meet someone who doesn’t require a translation service? Someone who says they’ll call — and actually calls. Someone who invites you somewhere because they genuinely want your company, not because they’re ticking a social obligation off their list. Someone who says they care and demonstrates it without needing applause,… Read More At Last! Someone Who Means What They Say and Says What They Mean.

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The Hypocrisy Olympics: Recognising the Patterns and Knowing When to Stop Playing Along

A survival guide to people who talk the talk, walk absolutely nowhere and somehow still expect a standing ovation. There comes a time in life when you develop a rather wonderful skill: the ability to recognise nonsense without feeling the need to participate in it. You know the people I’m talking about. The ones who… Read More The Hypocrisy Olympics: Recognising the Patterns and Knowing When to Stop Playing Along

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When Marriage and Relationships Become a Cover for Hidden Behaviour

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Perhaps one of the most uncomfortable realities about sexual offending is that it does not always exist separately from an apparently ordinary domestic life. Some individuals maintain marriages, long-term relationships, families and respectable social identities while concealing behaviour that is entirely at odds with the image they present to the outside world. Marriage can create… Read More When Marriage and Relationships Become a Cover for Hidden Behaviour

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Practical Healing Steps: Learning to Feel Safe with Intimacy Again

Healing after inconsistent affection, emotional dismissal, or sexual pressure involves rebuilding safety, autonomy, and trust in yourself. Recognise withdrawal as protective, practise boundaries, explore non-sexual touch gradually, and distinguish calm from anxiety. Grounding, self-compassion, consistent respect, trauma-informed therapy, and patience can support recovery. Intimacy should remain freely chosen, never owed or forced.… Read More Practical Healing Steps: Learning to Feel Safe with Intimacy Again

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When Your Body Stops Feeling Safe

Sexual pressure and emotional punishment can make intimacy feel unsafe, leading to anxiety, avoidance, numbness, or reduced desire. These reactions are protective responses, not personal failures. Healthy intimacy requires freely given consent, respected boundaries, and affection without obligation. Recovery involves restoring choice, rebuilding trust gradually, and seeking trauma-informed support when needed.… Read More When Your Body Stops Feeling Safe

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Sexual Rejection Versus Sexual Coercion

When a partner’s right to say no becomes confused with another person’s perceived entitlement to sex Sexual intimacy is one of the most personal aspects of a relationship. It involves physical consent, emotional safety, trust, vulnerability and mutual respect. Yet in some relationships, the subject of sex becomes entangled with entitlement, rejection, resentment and power.… Read More Sexual Rejection Versus Sexual Coercion

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