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Parenting, Punishment & the Emotional Impact on Children

A self-reflection questionnaire | Emotional Awareness • Childhood Development • Positive Discipline Introduction How we discipline children can influence how they understand themselves, manage emotions and develop relationships with others. This questionnaire invites you to reflect on your parenting beliefs and responses when children misbehave. There are no scores and no expectation of perfect parenting.… Read More Parenting, Punishment & the Emotional Impact on Children

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When Discipline Becomes Fear: The Lasting Impact of Smacking and Verbal Abuse on Children

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Children need guidance, boundaries and understanding. They should never have to learn obedience through fear, humiliation or physical aggression. There are certain things in life that you witness which stay with you, not because you necessarily expect to become involved, but because something about what you see feels fundamentally wrong. During my second marriage, I… Read More When Discipline Becomes Fear: The Lasting Impact of Smacking and Verbal Abuse on Children

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Behind Closed Doors: Recognising the Warning Signs of Child Sexual Abuse and Hidden Offending

The respectable identity an adult presents to society does not necessarily reveal their private behaviour. Understanding grooming, boundary violations, secrecy and patterns of inappropriate conduct can help protect children before abuse escalates. One of the most difficult aspects of child sexual abuse is that perpetrators do not necessarily look, behave or present themselves in ways… Read More Behind Closed Doors: Recognising the Warning Signs of Child Sexual Abuse and Hidden Offending

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COURT-READY TIMELINE OF PATTERN OF CONTROL

(Psychological, Financial, and Documentary Manipulation Over 32 Years) 1. Pre-Marriage Period – Early Indicators of Control Partner begins collecting or retaining the other party’s personal documents (ID, certificates, financial papers) before marriage. Early signs of secrecy around finances, reluctance to share account information, and insistence on controlling administrative matters. Pressure to formalise marriage despite the… Read More COURT-READY TIMELINE OF PATTERN OF CONTROL

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Single Parents: Superheroes Without the Capes (and Usually Without Enough Sleep!)

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This piece celebrates the immense challenges faced by single parents who balance multiple roles, from caregiver to financial manager. It acknowledges their multitasking abilities, emotional burdens, and sacrifices made for their children. The article emphasizes the importance of support, recognizing that single parents deserve appreciation, validation, and the chance to pursue personal happiness alongside parenting.… Read More Single Parents: Superheroes Without the Capes (and Usually Without Enough Sleep!)

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Independent Women: We Earned Our Own Money, Thank You Very Much! 💃💰

Here’s to the women who have worked hard, paid their own bills, built their own lives and discovered that being financially independent is a rather wonderful thing. There is something quite special about a woman who knows she can look after herself. She has worked, earned her money, paid her mortgage or rent, bought her… Read More Independent Women: We Earned Our Own Money, Thank You Very Much! 💃💰

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YOU CAN’T HAVE IT ALL! The Reality of Divorce and the Lifestyle You Leave Behind

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Divorce often brings significant changes that many overlook, including financial, lifestyle, and emotional adjustments. While individuals may gain independence and peace, they must also accept the loss of certain comforts and navigate new responsibilities. Realistic expectations are essential for successfully building an emotionally healthy and sustainable life post-divorce.… Read More YOU CAN’T HAVE IT ALL! The Reality of Divorce and the Lifestyle You Leave Behind

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Don’t Let the Killjoy Ruin the Happy Ending

The author reflects on a conversation with a friend about a new, happier relationship after a previous one marked by negativity. The friend warns against letting the ex’s misery affect the new relationship. This realization leads to a liberating perspective: happiness should not be dictated by others, and the author chooses to embrace joy and spontaneity.… Read More Don’t Let the Killjoy Ruin the Happy Ending

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When the Behaviour You Taught Comes Back to You

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The content discusses how children learn behaviors from their parents, often unconsciously adopting negative patterns such as manipulation, disrespect, or cruelty. It emphasizes the importance of modeling healthy relationship dynamics, as children may later reflect these learned behaviors back onto their parents. The piece urges introspection on what values are being taught through actions, not just words.… Read More When the Behaviour You Taught Comes Back to You

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