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Single Parents: Superheroes Without the Capes (and Usually Without Enough Sleep!)

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This piece celebrates the immense challenges faced by single parents who balance multiple roles, from caregiver to financial manager. It acknowledges their multitasking abilities, emotional burdens, and sacrifices made for their children. The article emphasizes the importance of support, recognizing that single parents deserve appreciation, validation, and the chance to pursue personal happiness alongside parenting.… Read More Single Parents: Superheroes Without the Capes (and Usually Without Enough Sleep!)

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Independent Women: We Earned Our Own Money, Thank You Very Much! 💃💰

Here’s to the women who have worked hard, paid their own bills, built their own lives and discovered that being financially independent is a rather wonderful thing. There is something quite special about a woman who knows she can look after herself. She has worked, earned her money, paid her mortgage or rent, bought her… Read More Independent Women: We Earned Our Own Money, Thank You Very Much! 💃💰

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YOU CAN’T HAVE IT ALL! The Reality of Divorce and the Lifestyle You Leave Behind

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Divorce often brings significant changes that many overlook, including financial, lifestyle, and emotional adjustments. While individuals may gain independence and peace, they must also accept the loss of certain comforts and navigate new responsibilities. Realistic expectations are essential for successfully building an emotionally healthy and sustainable life post-divorce.… Read More YOU CAN’T HAVE IT ALL! The Reality of Divorce and the Lifestyle You Leave Behind

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Don’t Let the Killjoy Ruin the Happy Ending

The author reflects on a conversation with a friend about a new, happier relationship after a previous one marked by negativity. The friend warns against letting the ex’s misery affect the new relationship. This realization leads to a liberating perspective: happiness should not be dictated by others, and the author chooses to embrace joy and spontaneity.… Read More Don’t Let the Killjoy Ruin the Happy Ending

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When the Behaviour You Taught Comes Back to You

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The content discusses how children learn behaviors from their parents, often unconsciously adopting negative patterns such as manipulation, disrespect, or cruelty. It emphasizes the importance of modeling healthy relationship dynamics, as children may later reflect these learned behaviors back onto their parents. The piece urges introspection on what values are being taught through actions, not just words.… Read More When the Behaviour You Taught Comes Back to You

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What Are We Really Teaching Our Children?

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The content discusses the impact of adult behavior on children’s understanding of kindness and relationships. It highlights the contradiction between teaching respect while adults engage in cruel behavior for amusement. The text emphasizes that children learn from adult actions, urging a reflection on how choices can influence their values and treatment of others.… Read More What Are We Really Teaching Our Children?

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When Someone Suggests They Know Something About A Child That You Don’t Know — Don’t Ignore the Alarm Bells

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Sometimes the most important warning sign isn’t what someone tells you. It’s what they imply they know. Imagine someone makes an apparently casual comment about your child. Perhaps they mention something you didn’t know. Perhaps they imply they have information about your child’s life that hasn’t been shared with you. Perhaps they say: “I know… Read More When Someone Suggests They Know Something About A Child That You Don’t Know — Don’t Ignore the Alarm Bells

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Would You Believe the Evidence — or Protect the Person You Love?

The content discusses the complexities of recognizing and addressing potential grooming behaviors towards children by trusted individuals. It emphasizes the psychological challenges parents face when confronted with allegations against those they know and care for, urging them to remain vigilant for warning signs and prioritize their children’s safety above discomfort or reputations.… Read More Would You Believe the Evidence — or Protect the Person You Love?

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“What Did You See in Him?” — Just Look at the Family Photo!

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The author reflects humorously on her unconventional past relationship, contrasting her first husband’s attractiveness with her second’s physical mismatches. She acknowledges that attraction can extend beyond appearance, driven by emotional needs and circumstances. Ultimately, she returns to her original type, illustrating how personal preferences can resurface after significant experiences.… Read More “What Did You See in Him?” — Just Look at the Family Photo!

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Hands Up: I Wasn’t Actually Looking for a Boyfriend — I Was Looking for My Children

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The lengths a mother will go to when she hasn’t seen her children for two years I have a confession to make. Looking back, I have to laugh. When I got together with my ex, there was a very important detail he apparently failed to notice. I wasn’t actually there because I was particularly interested… Read More Hands Up: I Wasn’t Actually Looking for a Boyfriend — I Was Looking for My Children

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