Category: LINDA C J TURNER – Trauma Therapist

 International domestic violence cases

Understanding what information is shared between countries about domestic abuse and domestic violence is essential for survivors seeking justice across international borders. In cross-border domestic abuse and international domestic violence cases, authorities may exchange police reports, criminal investigations, court documents, protection orders, risk assessments, and evidence where legally permitted. This cooperation can play a crucial role when a survivor has moved to… Read More  International domestic violence cases

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Left it too late!

No survivor should ever feel they have “left it too late.” Seeking information about reopening an abuse case is not about reopening old wounds—it is about understanding your legal rights, reclaiming your voice, and making informed decisions about your future. Whether your experience involves cross-border domestic abuse, international domestic violence cases, coercive control, psychological abuse, or physical violence, you may… Read More Left it too late!

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Can an Abuse Case Be Reopened in Another Country?

Many survivors believe that once a case has been closed, or if no charges were brought, there is no possibility of justice. That is not always true. In today’s world, many abusive relationships cross international borders. Couples relocate for work, retire abroad, or move between countries during long-term relationships. Abuse may occur in one country… Read More Can an Abuse Case Be Reopened in Another Country?

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I was one of those survivors.

The increase in reports of non-fatal strangulation is not necessarily a sign that it is happening more often—it is a sign that it is finally being recognised. For too long, survivors were dismissed because there were few visible injuries. We now understand, through neuroscience and domestic abuse research, that strangulation can cause brain injury, long-term… Read More I was one of those survivors.

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Believe the Behaviour, Not the Excuse

Believe the Behaviour, Not the Excuse Pay attention to what people consistently show you. If they repeatedly show disrespect, contempt, hostility, anger, indifference, or a lack of empathy, don’t dismiss it. Don’t make excuses for them. Don’t convince yourself they didn’t mean it. Psychology has long recognised that behaviour is one of the most reliable… Read More Believe the Behaviour, Not the Excuse

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Possible Warning Signs of Financial Abuse and Withholding

Financial abuse is not defined by how much money a family has. It is defined by how money is used to create power, dependence, fear, or inequality. Relationship psychologists recognise that financial abuse often develops gradually. It is the repeated pattern—not a single event—that matters. Possible warning signs include: Children repeatedly describing one parent as frightening,… Read More Possible Warning Signs of Financial Abuse and Withholding

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When Image and Reality Don’t Match

Healthy partnership vs unhealthy partnership Comparison of common relationship patterns. No single characteristic proves abuse or financial control; it is the overall pattern that matters. Healthy partnership When Image and Reality Don’t Match A healthy relationship is rarely measured by income alone. It is measured by how resources, respect, and responsibilities are shared. Someone may describe… Read More When Image and Reality Don’t Match

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When Words and Behaviour Don’t Match: The Psychology of Family Narratives

One of the most revealing moments in any relationship is when you hear two very different accounts of the same family. One person describes a “perfect” childhood and an idyllic family life. Another sibling quietly confides that home was marked by frequent arguments, emotional distance, financial control, poor communication, or a lack of teamwork. Which… Read More When Words and Behaviour Don’t Match: The Psychology of Family Narratives

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The quality of relationships matters much more than the family structure itself.

There isn’t a simple rule that a two-parent family or a single-parent family is inherently “healthier.” Decades of developmental psychology consistently show that the quality of relationships matters much more than the family structure itself. Children generally do best in environments that are safe, stable, nurturing, and predictable. Superficially “Perfect” Family with Chronic Conflict Single Parent… Read More The quality of relationships matters much more than the family structure itself.

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