When Life Becomes a Game to Them — But Survival Is Not a Game to You

To some people, life is just a game of strategy.

They play people like pawns.
They move pieces in secret.
They manipulate circumstances, twist stories, and sit smugly behind the illusion that no one sees what they’re doing.

They think if they push hard enough, lie convincingly enough, and abuse quietly enough — they’ll win.

But what happens when the target of that game stops playing?


🎭 This Isn’t His First Game — But It Will Be His Last

He tried it before.

He manipulated his first wife into leaving her home, gaining control over the property and her life. And now — years later — he thought he could run the same script again.

This time with me.

The plan was simple (to him):

  • Push me to breaking point with emotional and physical abuse.
  • Hope I’d leave Spain and go live with my daughter.
  • Take over the house, the car, the dog — the life I built.
  • Move his girlfriend in, as if I never existed.
  • And once again, rewrite history with a smile.

That’s not just manipulation — that’s cruelty.
And it’s a pattern.


🧩 The Family Who Stayed Quiet

It doesn’t end with him.

His son, it seems, assumed he could spend the summer here too — a base for Benidorm, a free holiday, maybe a glass of wine on the terrace. And me? Out of the way.
His daughter, last time she visited, said very little. And perhaps silence speaks volumes.

Because let’s face it — they probably knew.
And still, they came.
Let me cook, clean, welcome them.
Pretending everything was fine.
Smiling over meals I made, while plotting in whispers.

But the truth has a way of creeping into even the most polished lies.
And inheritance doesn’t come from betrayal — it comes from karma.


🐾 I Stayed — Because I Have Every Right To

Despite everything, I am still here.

Yes, it’s been a financial struggle.
Yes, he left me with debtsdelays, and deliberate sabotage.
Yes, he tried to make things unbearable — from interference with my bank cards, to attempting control over the car and property.

But I stayed.

I stayed because I won’t be bullied out of my home.
I stayed because my dog deserves peace, just like I do.
I stayed because justice isn’t just for the rich or manipulative — it’s for the truthful and the brave.

And above all, I stayed because he doesn’t get to write the ending to my story.


⚖️ The Court Will Decide — Not Him, Not His Kids, and Not His Plans

He doesn’t get to decide what I lose.
He doesn’t get to decide who moves where, who gets what, or when I go.

The court will decide.

Because truth, not tantrums, will be the judge.
Because integrity, not inheritance schemes, will matter.
Because I have evidencecourage, and the will to fight for what’s mine.

And to those who think they’re cleverly working things in their favour while staying conveniently silent?

Your silence has been noted.
Your hypocrisy remembered.
Your entitlement? Exposed.


💪 I Am Not Leaving. I Am Not Afraid. I Am Not Alone.

I’ve learned the hard way that when someone treats life like a game, they’ll sacrifice anyone to win.

But I am not a piece on his board.
I am a human being — with a heart, with a history, and with a right to live in peace.

Let him twist. Let them talk. Let the girlfriend settle into her delusions.
Let the children wait for what they think is coming.

Because what’s actually coming?
Is the truth.

And when it finally arrives in court, stamped, signed, and seen — the game will be over.

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