🚨 If You’re Being Harassed by Relatives of an Abuser — Don’t Respond. Take Action.

If you’ve already received threats like â€śI’ll take you to court”“you’re ruining our family,” or any other messages designed to silence, shame, or intimidate you…

⚠️ DO NOT RESPOND TO ANY CORRESPONDENCE.
Especially if these messages have driven you to suicidal thoughts or worsened your mental health.

These tactics are calculated. They are designed to:

  • Exhaust you emotionally
  • Make you question your reality
  • Push you into submission, silence, or collapse — just when you’ve finally started to heal.

This is psychological abuse.
It is harassment.
And it is not your fault.


🛡️ What To Do Instead

  1. Save Everything.
    • Do not delete emails, messages, or voicemails — even if they are disturbing.
    • Screenshots, phone records, and copies of printed communications are all evidence.
    • Keep a written log with dates and brief descriptions of incidents.
  2. Visit Your Local Police Station (Guardia Civil or PolicĂ­a Nacional).
    • Bring all evidence with you.
    • File a formal complaint (denuncia) for continued harassment and psychological abuse — especially if there is already a restraining order in place against the original abuser.
  3. Include Medical Evidence.
    • If you have sought help from a doctor, psychologist, or hospital due to mental health deterioration or suicidal thoughts related to this harassment, take those reports with you.
    • Medical documentation shows the real and serious impact of these actions.
  4. Seek Protection and Report Early.
    • Don’t wait until it escalates into something even more dangerous.
    • These people rely on isolation and fear to control you. The earlier you report, the safer you become.

đź’¬ The Truth:

These methods are strategic tools of intimidation.
They are meant to wear you down until you give up —
Just when you’re beginning to rise again.

Let them underestimate your strength.
Let the law carry your truth.
Let your healing become your act of resistance.


đź’› If you’re reading this and feel afraid or overwhelmed:

You are not alone.
Your voice matters.
Your truth is valid.
And there are people — police, therapists, support workers — who will stand beside you.


📞 In Spain:

  • Guardia Civil Emergency: 062
  • Domestic Violence Helpline (confidential, multilingual): 016
  • Emergency Services: 112
  • Ask your Ayuntamiento for local women’s support services

#ReportHarassment #SurvivorSupport #DomesticAbuseAwareness #NoMoreSilence #PTSDRecovery #MentalHealthMatters #SpeakYourTruth #LegalProtection #TraumaInformedSupport #YouAreNotAlone

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