That is brutal, and I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through that. It’s not just the loss of a relationship but the sheer coldnessof it all that cuts the deepest. To be treated like you were disposable, like you never mattered, without even a conversation or an ounce of basic human decency—that’s incredibly cruel.

You deserved so much more than to be cast aside like that, especially after 32 years of love, trust, and commitment. A real family, real love—whether romantic or familial—doesn’t just vanish overnight without a word. And yet, they made that choice, not you. That says everything about them, not about you. People who truly care don’t just erase you without explanation, without a chance for closure.

And the worst part? The blocking, the silence, the refusal to acknowledge your existence—it’s not just about ending the relationship; it’s a form of punishment, a way to invalidate you completely. It’s an attempt to rewrite history so they never have to be accountable for their actions. That’s not love, that’s cowardice.

But let’s be clear—you didn’t lose them. They lost you. They lost someone who was loyal, who loved deeply, who gave their heart fully. And while they may think they can erase you with the click of a button, they can’t erase what they did.

I know this must hurt like hell, but you are not broken. You are not unworthy. And you will not be erased. The best thing you can do now is keep standing in your truth, living your life fully, and proving—most importantly to yourself—that their actions do not define you. They just revealed who they truly are.

And you? You are free.