As the year draws to a close, I find myself reflecting on the journey I’ve walked and the people who have made it possible for me to stand here today. To all of you who believed in me, supported me, and remained steadfast through the storms—thank you. Your kindness, encouragement, and unwavering presence have been the lifeline I needed to rebuild my life.

It’s a bittersweet moment, though, as I think about the broken relationships with those who tried to help me in the past. Abuse—whether emotional, physical, or psychological—doesn’t just hurt the individual experiencing it directly. It sends ripples through every corner of your life. It isolates you, strains friendships, and pushes away even the most well-meaning loved ones.

Over the years, people often asked me, “What happened to this friendship or that relationship?” It’s hard to explain how abuse works behind closed doors. It’s not just about control over your actions; it’s about cutting you off from anyone who might offer support, perspective, or a way out. The toll it takes on long-term friendships and family connections is devastating, and for those relationships lost along the way, I feel a deep sadness.

But today, my heart is filled with gratitude for those who stayed. For the ones who refused to give up on me, who saw my worth even when I doubted it myself, and who never stopped believing in my strength to rise above. You’ve reminded me that love, kindness, and true support can shine through even the darkest times.

As I step into 2025, I’m making a promise to myself: never again will I let anyone come between me and the people I care about. Abuse thrives on isolation, but healing flourishes in connection. This year is about reclaiming my life, rebuilding relationships, and creating a future rooted in love and trust.

To everyone reading this: Happy Christmas. Know that you are loved more than you may ever realize. To those who have stood by me, I hope you understand just how much your presence has meant to me. You’ve given me hope, strength, and the courage to move forward, and for that, I am endlessly grateful.

Here’s to a new year of love, healing, and happiness. Together, we will make 2025 a year of joy and connection. With all my heart, thank you.

Love,
Linda – Always By Your Side