Oh, people always love to say:“How did you not see it?”As if abusers come with hazard lights, a warning label, and a user manual titled “I’m Going to Make Your Life a Psychological Escape Room.” Here’s the truth — delivered with a wink and an eyeroll. 1. Because They Start Off Acting Like a Human Being… Read More Why People Fall for the Façade at First
People don’t like to talk about it, but it’s the truth:violence and abuse often escalate during the holiday season. Stress, alcohol, financial pressure, entitlement, loss of routine, family gatherings — all of these can inflame an abuser’s behaviour. And many abusers deliberately “up their game” at Christmas to cause maximum emotional impact. After 32 Christmases of abuse, I… Read More Violence and Abuse Often Escalate at Christmas — Stay Vigilant
People who perform success, intelligence, wealth, or status that they do not have — while secretly being obsessed with money, social climbing, and using others. Psychology and neuroscience have a LOT to say about this. Below is a clear, structured guide with signs, mechanisms, and the brain-based reasons behind the behaviour. 🔥 1. What This Behaviour Is Called in Psychology These patterns fall… Read More Pseudologia Fantastica
The sunk cost trap is a psychological pattern where you keep investing time, money, or emotion into something because you’ve already invested, even when all signs show it’s not good for you anymore. It’s one of the biggest reasons people stay in bad relationships, toxic friendships, or financially exploitative situations. 🔍 Simple Definition “I’ve already put so much in… I can’t… Read More The Sunk Cost Trap
“Bryan Randall was the kind of man who made you feel like the world was a little brighter just because he was in it. He didn’t have to try to be good, he just was. He’d say things like, ‘I just want you to know that you matter,’ or ‘Sometimes the smallest kindness is the one that changes… Read More Words from Sandra Bullock
Let’s be honest — when imagining the “perfect man,” it’s impossible not to picture someone who stops you in your tracks. But perfection isn’t just in the mirror; it’s in the way he carries himself through life. Looks That Catch Your Eye He’s tall, proud, and confident without arrogance. His hair has that effortless style… Read More The Perfect Man: A Playful Guide
1. Version for a Police Denuncia (Policía Nacional / Guardia Civil) Subject: Discovery of a Suspected Hidden Camera Inside My Home I wish to file a denuncia regarding the discovery of a suspected hidden camera inside my residence. Facts: Risk and Context: Request: I remain available to provide additional information or statements as required. 2. Version… Read More Discovery of a Suspected Hidden Camera Inside My Home
It’s completely human to reach a point where everything hits at once and you feel you’re standing at a crossroads with no clear direction. That feeling doesn’t mean you’re lost — it means life is asking you to pause, reassess, and choose with intention instead of autopilot. Here’s what’s really happening in moments like this, and what can help:… Read More Crossroads
Below is a clear breakdown of why people engage in sustained coercive harassment, even when legal boundaries exist. 1. Threat-Based Brain Activation (“Survival Mode”) When someone fears losing control, status, or assets, the brain’s amygdala goes into high-alert.This creates: This pattern shows a shift from logical reasoning (prefrontal cortex) to survival-driven emotional reactivity (amygdala). 2. Coercive Control Circuits (Power–Reward Loop) People who harass to… Read More Neuroscience & Psychological Mechanisms Behind This Behaviour
Example of Observed Behaviours / Patterns Behaviour Description Psychological Impact / Interpretation Threats regarding property and assets Lawyer communicated 65/35 split and potential full property claim if agreement not signed. Activates amygdala fear response, cortisol release, and loss-aversion bias, impairing rational decision-making. Demand to withdraw complaints/restraining orders Explicit request to dismiss prior legal protections. Induces moral conflict and prefrontal cortex… Read More Observed Behaviours / Patterns
