Tag: domestic-violence

When Cruelty Escalates: The Psychology of Lethal Violence, Coercive Control and the Erosion of Empathy

Understanding how prolonged patterns of domination, entitlement and violence can develop into extreme danger. There is an important distinction between an isolated act of violence and a pattern of behaviour in which intimidation, coercion, humiliation and control become increasingly established. In some cases of domestic homicide, the killing is not an entirely unexpected event or… Read More When Cruelty Escalates: The Psychology of Lethal Violence, Coercive Control and the Erosion of Empathy

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From Extreme Risk to Medium: Two Years Later, I Am Beginning to Feel Safe

Two years ago, I was deemed at extreme risk for domestic violence, but now my risk level has decreased to medium due to protective measures. Although progress has been made, I emphasize the importance of recognizing and addressing abuse early. I share my journey to inspire others to seek help without delay.… Read More From Extreme Risk to Medium: Two Years Later, I Am Beginning to Feel Safe

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Beyond Leaving: When Domestic Abuse Becomes Life-Threatening

Warning signs, dangerous combinations and when to seek help By Linda CJ Turner | Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner Content warning: This article discusses domestic abuse, strangulation, threats, stalking and domestic homicide. Leaving a relationship is not always the end of domestic abuse. For some people, it is the point at which… Read More Beyond Leaving: When Domestic Abuse Becomes Life-Threatening

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Enough Is Enough: Why Supporting Victims of Domestic Violence Matters

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Domestic violence is often viewed as a private matter, but it requires public acknowledgment and support. Victims need validation and assistance from friends and family. It is essential to challenge the normalization of abuse, provide real support, and ensure that victims do not face their struggles alone. Silence only enables the abuse to persist.… Read More Enough Is Enough: Why Supporting Victims of Domestic Violence Matters

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Multidimensional Abuse: When Abuse Takes More Than One Form

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Abuse within an intimate relationship is rarely confined to a single behaviour. While public discussions often focus on physical violence, clinical understanding recognises that interpersonal abuse can occur across multiple domains simultaneously, including psychological, verbal, physical, sexual and financial abuse. When several forms of abuse coexist and interact, this can be described as multidimensional or multidomain… Read More Multidimensional Abuse: When Abuse Takes More Than One Form

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Starting a New Relationship? Here’s How You Can Check if Your New Partner Has a History of Domestic Abuse

Beginning a new relationship should be exciting, but it is also important to protect yourself. If something doesn’t feel right, trust your instincts. You have every right to ask questions, take things slowly, and make informed decisions about your safety. Many people don’t realise that in some countries there are official schemes that allow you… Read More Starting a New Relationship? Here’s How You Can Check if Your New Partner Has a History of Domestic Abuse

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Within Europe, the position is:

Country Disclosure Scheme Public Statistics Available England & Wales ✅ Clare’s Law (2014) Yes – annual national statistics published.  Scotland ✅ Disclosure Scheme for Domestic Abuse Scotland (2015) Yes – Police Scotland publishes application and disclosure figures.  Northern Ireland ✅ Domestic Violence and Abuse Disclosure Scheme (2018) Limited public statistics.  Republic of Ireland ❌ No… Read More Within Europe, the position is:

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“I Doubt He’ll Kill You” – Why Well-Meaning Relatives Can Get It Wrong

One of the most painful experiences for survivors of domestic abuse is hearing someone close to them say: “I doubt he’ll kill you.” It may be intended as reassurance, but to someone living with abuse, those words can feel dismissive, minimising, and dangerously out of touch with reality. The truth is that relatives, friends, and… Read More “I Doubt He’ll Kill You” – Why Well-Meaning Relatives Can Get It Wrong

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Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme

Several countries and jurisdictions have introduced schemes inspired by Clare’s Law, although they vary in how much information can be disclosed and who can request it. United Kingdom The UK has the most established system: Right to Ask – someone can ask police about a current or former partner. Right to Know – police can proactively disclose information… Read More Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme

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