The law of karma is a fundamental concept found in several Eastern philosophies and religions, such as Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism, and Sikhism. It describes the principle of cause and effect, where every action—whether good or bad—has corresponding consequences that affect an individual’s present and future life. Core Principles Types of Karma Practical Implications The law… Read More Understanding the Law of Karma
When history repeats itself and a family that once doubted or dismissed abuse finds themselves facing the same painful situation again, the emotional and psychological impact can be devastating. This recurrence often exposes deep patterns of denial, disbelief, and unresolved trauma within the family system. Families that previously did not believe victims of abuse may… Read More The Pain of Repeated Abuse in Disbelieving Families
When an abuser witnesses the impact of their own behavior on their children or grandchildren, especially in a courtroom setting where they observe further abuse unfolding, a complex and profound emotional and psychological dynamic emerges. This scenario reveals layers of denial, accountability, and the cyclical nature of abuse that can affect families deeply. Abuse often… Read More The Moment of Reckoning: An Abuser Witnessing Their Own Legacy
Life often presents moments when the best course of action is to pause, breathe, and let things unfold naturally. In a fast-paced world filled with constant demands and pressures, learning to sit back, relax, and go with the flow is a powerful practice that can transform your experience and outlook. Embracing the Flow of Life… Read More Trusting a Higher Power
There is profound power in simply doing everyday things on your own terms—waking up late without guilt, inviting friends over whenever you wish, playing your favorite music at full volume, and enjoying a drink in the amount that feels right for you. The freedom to chat on the phone in the middle of the night,… Read More Experiencing Freedom in Everyday Moments: A Celebration of Liberation
There’s a special kind of happiness when beautiful people gather to celebrate not just a new house, but a new life. Bottles of cava sparkle, meals out bring laughter, and takeaways are shared with smiles—all marking the start of a fresh chapter. The joy is contagious because this isn’t just about a place to live;… Read More Celebrating a New Beginning: Freedom, Joy, and a Life Without Abuse
Many people enter marriage hoping their partner will change for the better, especially if they’ve experienced cruelty or meanness during the relationship. However, the truth is that mean behavior doesn’t magically vanish after the wedding or even after divorce. Some women hold on to the hope that this timethings will be different, but cruelty and meanness… Read More Mean Before, Mean After: Why Marriage Isn’t a Magic Makeover
1. Emotionally immature behaviour This is when someone struggles to regulate emotions or take responsibility for their impact on others. Common signs: How it feels to you:You may feel like you’re constantly “managing” their reactions rather than having an equal relationship. 2. Entitled behaviour patterns This involves expecting special treatment or exemptions from rules that… Read More How to Recognise Common Harmful Relational Patterns
If the situation feels manipulative, pressuring, or unsafe, the priority shifts from explaining to closing the door clearly and cleanly. You don’t owe emotional detail, evidence, or continued engagement. Here are a few more assertive message options you could use depending on how firm you need to be: 🚫 Firm and clear (most situations) “I’m not… Read More No Entry
If an abuser’s new partner comes to you asking questions about your past, your reaction will usually depend on one key question: Is this about their safety and understanding—or are you being pulled back into something emotionally destabilising? Here are a few common scenarios and how you might respond. 1. They seem genuine, grounded, and… Read More Questions and enquiries
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 