Category: LINDA C J TURNER – Trauma Therapist

Why People Align With Others They Don’t Even Like — The Neuroscience Behind It

At first glance, it can seem confusing — even contradictory — when someone aligns themselves with people they clearly don’t like, simply because there is something to gain. But neuroscience helps explain this behaviour. 1. Reward Overrides Authenticity The brain is wired to seek reward. When there is a perceived benefit — money, status, access,… Read More Why People Align With Others They Don’t Even Like — The Neuroscience Behind It

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Protecting Your Values in a World That Doesn’t Always Share Them

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

You cannot change someone else’s values, no matter how much you explain, justify, or hope they will see things differently. People act from who they are — their beliefs, their patterns, and what they prioritise. But what you can control is yourself. Protecting your values means: Because integrity is not about what others do — it’s about… Read More Protecting Your Values in a World That Doesn’t Always Share Them

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When People Take Advantage: The Psychology of Entitlement and Lack of Integrity

Most people understand fairness. They understand balance — giving, taking, contributing, respecting others. But there are some individuals who operate very differently. They show up when something is free.They are present when someone else is paying.They benefit where they can — regardless of relationships, values, or integrity. And often, they will align themselves with people… Read More When People Take Advantage: The Psychology of Entitlement and Lack of Integrity

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Abusive or high-conflict personalities.

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Low impulse control becomes much more significant — and more harmful — when it shows up in abusive or high-conflict personalities. Here’s how it typically plays out: 1. Fast Emotional Reactions Turn Into Harmful Behaviour In these personalities, emotions (especially anger, frustration, or feeling “disrespected”) rise very quickly — and there’s little pause before acting. So… Read More Abusive or high-conflict personalities.

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“What Was It Like Living in France?”

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A Slightly Honest… Slightly Dramatic Answer People often ask me: “What was it like living in France?” And without missing a beat, I usually reply: “Like solitary confinement… for 16 years.” Now, I know that sounds completely absurd. A bit dramatic.Possibly questionable.Definitely not something you’d expect someone to say about living in France. But honestly?… Read More “What Was It Like Living in France?”

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A Quiet Realisation: Why Staying Matters More Than Leaving

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Sometimes clarity doesn’t come from big decisions or dramatic moments. It comes quietly — in the middle of a good weekend, surrounded by the right people, in a place that simply feels… right. And suddenly you realise: This is why I need to stay. The Power of Familiarity There is something deeply stabilising about familiarity.… Read More A Quiet Realisation: Why Staying Matters More Than Leaving

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When Life Feels Light Again: The Power of a Perfect Weekend

Every now and then, life gives you a moment that reminds you how it’s meant to feel. A perfect weekend isn’t about luxury or perfection — it’s about energy. The kind that feels easy, natural, and real. The kind that doesn’t need effort. It’s good friends.It’s music in the background.It’s sunshine on your face.It’s laughter that comes… Read More When Life Feels Light Again: The Power of a Perfect Weekend

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