Category: LINDA C J TURNER – Trauma Therapist

Generosity vs Transactional Living: Recognising the Difference

Not everyone who avoids volunteering or prefers to be paid for their work is selfish. Healthy people set boundaries and value their time. The difference lies in whether someone is capable of genuine generosity without expecting a reward. Generous Mindset Transactional Mindset Helps a neighbour carry shopping because they need assistance. Asks, “What’s in it… Read More Generosity vs Transactional Living: Recognising the Difference

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Why Do Some People Refuse to Help Unless There Is Something in It for Them?

Have you ever met someone who seems incapable of doing anything unless there is a personal reward? They will not volunteer, help a neighbour, support a charity, or even do a favour for family or friends without expecting payment, recognition, or some form of return. They may even discourage others from volunteering, insisting that “nothing… Read More Why Do Some People Refuse to Help Unless There Is Something in It for Them?

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Faith or Performance? When Words and Actions Don’t Match

We have all met people who speak passionately about faith, quote scripture, and present themselves as deeply religious. They pray in public, preach to others, and insist on their moral values. Yet behind closed doors, their actions tell a very different story. This is not an attack on Christianity or any religion. In fact, every… Read More Faith or Performance? When Words and Actions Don’t Match

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Posts from this day, June 19. ☀️

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

2025   “When I Said I Wanted to Be on My Own – I Meant It”By someone who finally chose freedom, not escape.   View • Reblog   🔒 Sensitive Means SILENT: Why You Shouldn’t Share Details of an Ongoing Investigation (Even with Family)   View • Reblog   ⚖️ Criminal Offences under the Spanish Penal Code   View • Reblog   📸 When the Camera Doesn’t Lie:… Read More Posts from this day, June 19. ☀️

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The Olympic Sport of Never Being Wrong

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

After years of extensive research (and surviving one very determined individual), experts have finally identified a rare condition known as Chronic Correctness Syndrome (CCS). Common Symptoms Favourite Phrases Habitat Often found: The Negotiation Process Normal person: “Let’s split it fairly and move on.” CCS sufferer: “I’d rather spend £20,000 arguing about £5,000 than admit you might have a… Read More The Olympic Sport of Never Being Wrong

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Posts from this day, June 18. ☀️

2025   Let Me Go — I No Longer Belong to You   View • Reblog   “But he’s such a nice man…”To those still saying this — please, listen carefully.   View • Reblog   The Future   View • Reblog   “Why Do I Post? (AKA: What’s Going On in That Head of Mine?)”   View • Reblog   Real Men   View • Reblog   💬 “Two Marriages, Two Lessons — And One Beautiful… Read More Posts from this day, June 18. ☀️

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  “The Price of a 32-Year Apology”

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  ✨ Compatibility Isn’t Just Chemistry—It’s Congruence ✨(Why inner beauty and emotional alignment matter more than looks or labels)   View • Reblog   “The Price of a 32-Year Apology”Or: The Time He Tried to Win Me Back With Sentiment—Until the Money Stopped Flowing   View • Reblog   “DIY Diva: 30 Years of Doing It All (While He Played Tennis)”   View • Reblog   “Just Someone… Read More   “The Price of a 32-Year Apology”

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Your Lawyer Doesn’t Have to Believe You

One of life’s great misunderstandings is the idea that a lawyer only represents innocent people. Imagine the interview. Client: “I’m completely blameless.” Lawyer: “Of course you are.” What the lawyer is actually thinking is probably closer to: “Where are the documents?” Lawyers are not hired to become members of your fan club. They are hired to explain… Read More Your Lawyer Doesn’t Have to Believe You

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