Category: LINDA C J TURNER – Trauma Therapist
Parents Who Encourage Cheating, Lying, and Disrespect
Parents are a child’s first teachers. Children learn values not from lectures, but from what they see, hear, and experience every day. When parents encourage honesty, integrity, and respect, children are more likely to develop those qualities themselves. But when parents encourage cheating, lying, manipulation, or disrespect, they teach a very different lesson. A parent… Read More Parents Who Encourage Cheating, Lying, and Disrespect
Sadism
Sadism in families refers to situations where a family member gains satisfaction, pleasure, a sense of power, or emotional gratification from causing another family member pain, distress, humiliation, fear, or suffering. This does not always involve physical violence. In many families, sadistic behaviour is emotional or psychological. Examples can include: A key difference between ordinary… Read More Sadism
Miserable Parent, Miserable Child
Children absorb the emotional atmosphere around them. A miserable parent can often raise a miserable child. When a child grows up in a home filled with negativity, bitterness, constant complaining, resentment, or unhappiness, they may begin to see the world through the same lens. They learn not only from what is said, but from the… Read More Miserable Parent, Miserable Child
Angry Parent, Angry Child
Children learn how to deal with emotions by watching the adults around them. An angry parent often raises an angry child. When children grow up surrounded by shouting, aggression, hostility, blame, or constant conflict, they learn that anger is the normal response to frustration, disappointment, or disagreement. They may copy the behaviour they witness because… Read More Angry Parent, Angry Child
The Power of Role Models: Children Learn What They Live
Children learn far more from what they see than from what they are told. Parents and caregivers are a child’s first role models. The way adults speak, behave, manage conflict, show respect, and treat others becomes the blueprint from which children build their understanding of the world. When a child grows up in a home… Read More The Power of Role Models: Children Learn What They Live
Misogynistic attitudes
The experiences children have in abusive homes can profoundly shape how they see relationships, trust, and gender as adults. However, it is important to be careful not to assume that all boys who witness abuse will become “women haters.” Many boys who grow up watching their father or another male figure shout, insult, swear at,… Read More Misogynistic attitudes
Archives 25th June 2025
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I Hate the Word “Resilient”
Over the past decade, I have lost count of the number of times people have told me how resilient I am. They mean it as a compliment. They see someone who has survived difficult circumstances, kept going when life became overwhelming, and somehow found the strength to carry on. They see resilience. But if I’m… Read More I Hate the Word “Resilient”
Looking After Yourself During and After Trauma
One of the most important lessons to learn during and after trauma is that you cannot pour from an empty cup. When life has been turned upside down, your wellbeing must become a priority, not an afterthought. Think of the safety instructions on an aeroplane: “Put your own oxygen mask on first before assisting others.” This advice is… Read More Looking After Yourself During and After Trauma
Trauma • Neuroscience • Emotional Intelligence • Women's Empowerment 