(Recognising When Abuse Becomes Life-Threatening) 1. Escalating Control 2. Verbal & Psychological Threats 3. Physical Warning Signs 4. High-Risk Red Flags 🚩 (If any of these are “yes,” the danger is severe and immediate) 5. Gut Feeling ✅ How to use this tool: 🛡 Safety Next Steps
Abuse doesn’t always start with something that looks “dangerous.” It can creep in slowly—controlling behaviour, put-downs, silent treatments, financial restrictions—before escalating into real threats to safety. The shift from “abuse” to “dangerous abuse” is often when the abuser begins crossing invisible lines of safety, and it can happen gradually or suddenly. Here are some key… Read More Dangerous
Bhajan Kaur was killed by her son after he was arrested on suspicion of coercive and controlling behaviour. Mary Haley was killed by her son at home after he had spent weeks demanding money from her. Sally Poynton was killed by her son after he was discharged from a mental health unit without a diagnosis… Read More Killing of women by men
An estimated 140 women and girls across the world die at the hands of their partner or family member every day, according to new global estimates on femicide by the UN. The report by UN Women found 85,000 women and girls were killed intentionally by men in 2023, with 60% (51,100) of these deaths committed by someone… Read More Global estimates on femicide by the UN.
In Europe, femicide—the gender-based killing of women by men—remains a deeply concerning issue, though the rates and patterns vary across countries. While the United Kingdom reports that a woman is killed by a man every three days, European statistics present a broader and more complex picture.OBC Transeuropa+2OBC Transeuropa+2 🇪🇺 European Overview In 2023, 749 women were… Read More Gender-based killing of women by men
Violence against women and girls accounts for 20% of all recorded crime in England and Wales, according to the National Police Chiefs’ Council. A woman is killed by a man every three days in the UK; in the year to March 2024, there were 108 domestic homicides in England and Wales, according to the Office… Read More A woman is killed by a man every three days in the UK
In an increasingly globalized world, working abroad has become more than just a career move—it’s a life decision. Accepting a job in a new country can open doors to financial growth, cultural enrichment, and personal development. Yet, it also carries psychological, logistical, and social considerations that are crucial to evaluate before committing. 1. Understanding the… Read More Exploring Job Offers Abroad: A Guide for Opportunity and Security
Living in Dubai offers a unique blend of modern luxury, cultural diversity, and economic opportunity. However, like any major city, it comes with its own set of challenges. Here’s a comprehensive overview to help you decide if Dubai is the right place for you. 🌟 Pros of Living in Dubai 1. Tax-Free Income One of the… Read More 🌟 Pros of Living in Dubai
When someone has lived through years of abuse, the lingering threat often extends far beyond the relationship itself. The danger isn’t always in daily encounters—it’s in the knowledge that the person who caused harm could, at any moment, intrude, manipulate, or escalate their behavior. For survivors, freedom isn’t just about leaving physically—it’s about creating psychological… Read More Breaking Free: Understanding the Psychological Safety in Distance from an Abuser
For too long, silence was my survival. I held my pain in private, carried his secrets, and hid the scars so the world wouldn’t see. But silence only protects the abuser—it never protects the abused. Now, I’m creating my own plan forward:🌱 I will run a couple of healing retreats—spaces of safety, strength, and recovery,… Read More 🌟 The Plan: Heal, Speak, Move Forward ✨
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 