1️⃣ Personal / Intimate Probing
- “Tell me all your fantasies and secrets”
- “Who do you live with?”
- “Do you live alone?”
- “Do you have kids? Can you get rid of them?”
- “What do your parents think about you dating?”
- “Have you been with anyone else recently?”
- “Do you sleep alone?”
- “Do you have any past medical issues?”
- “What do you do in your free time? Everything?”
- “Have you ever cheated?”
2️⃣ Financial / Asset Questions
- “Who owns your house?”
- “Who owns your car?”
- “Do you have more than one car?”
- “Do you have a separate bank account?”
- “How much do you earn?”
- “Do you have investments?”
- “Do you get alimony or child support?”
- “Do you have insurance?”
- “How much do you have saved?”
- “Do you own expensive things?”
3️⃣ Legal / Divorce / Separation
- “How long until the divorce is final?”
- “What will you get in the settlement?”
- “Does your ex have visitation?”
- “Does your ex interfere?”
- “Do you have lawyers or legal problems?”
- “Have you ever been sued?”
- “Any chance your ex will fight you?”
- “Are there legal limits to what you can do?”
- “Do you have custody issues?”
- “Will the divorce affect your future plans?”
4️⃣ Lifestyle / Privacy Invasion
- “What are your passwords?”
- “Can I see your phone / messages?”
- “Where do you usually go on vacation?”
- “Do you travel alone or with friends?”
- “Do you have social media accounts for work?”
- “Do you ever stay out late?”
- “Who do you spend your time with?”
- “Can I check your emails?”
- “Do you have any friends I should know about?”
- “What’s your daily routine?”
5️⃣ Manipulative / Pressure Tactics
- “If I asked you to do something, would you?”
- “Would you leave your family for me?”
- “If you loved me, you’d…”
- “Don’t you trust me to tell me everything?”
- “I just need to know, please be honest with me”
- “You should be open with me about everything”
- “I’m only asking because I care about you”
- “You don’t need to hide anything from me”
- “I just like to know who I’m dating”
- “I like to be in control of finances”
6️⃣ Love-Bombing / Fast Intimacy Statements
- “We’re meant to be together”
- “I feel like we’re soulmates”
- “You complete me already”
- “I can feel your energy from here”
- “I feel like I’ve known you forever”
- “I need you in my life right now”
- “I can’t imagine anyone else but you”
- “I think about you all the time”
- “I can’t wait to spend my life with you”
- “I trust you completely already”
💡 Quick Detection Tips
- Too fast, too familiar: Questions about money, secrets, or love-bombing immediately.
- Financial probing: Any detailed money, property, or bank account questions early on.
- Legal fishing: Questions about divorce, settlements, custody, or lawyers.
- Pressure & manipulation: Using guilt, urgency, or “trust me” language.
- Privacy invasion: Asking for passwords, access to devices, or constant monitoring.
