One minute he’s calling you “the best thing that ever happened to him,” and the next he’s ghosting like Casper with commitment issues. You move on, get your groove back, meet someone who doesn’t make you question your entire self-worth—and BOOM! Like clockwork, he’s back in your inbox with a “Hey stranger 😉.”

Can someone please explain?!
Do they come with a manual?
A secret code?
A flashing light that signals “I’m about to be inconsistent again, please hold your sanity”?

Because trying to figure out what men really want sometimes feels like:

🔍 Solving a Rubik’s Cube in the dark.
🎲 Playing emotional Jenga with your heart.
🎢 Riding a rollercoaster with no seatbelt.
💬 And just when you think you’ve got it figured out… plot twist!

You want deep chats, they want “space.”
You want honesty, they offer vibes.
You finally find someone stable—and poof! Mr. Confused makes a comeback like it’s a Netflix reboot no one asked for.

Ladies, here’s the truth:

It’s not about you.
It’s not because you “moved on too fast.”
It’s not because you wore the red dress instead of the blue one.
And no, you’re not being “too emotional.” (You’re just tuned in to reality while they’re buffering in 2004.)

Sometimes they’re not confused about you—they’re confused about themselves.
And you? You’re just trying to live your life, drink your coffee hot, and avoid unnecessary drama.

So what do men really want?
Who knows. Maybe a sandwich. Maybe a soul connection. Maybe both.

But until they figure it out, here’s what YOU want:

💗 Peace over chaos
💃 Laughter over tears
🕊️ Consistency over confusion
✨ And a love that doesn’t play hide and seek with your heart.

So wear the red dress.
Flirt with the nice guy.
Delete the message from Captain Mixed Signals.
And remember: You’re not the confusing one here.

#NotWaitingForBreadcrumbs
#PlotTwistQueen
#MixedSignalsBlocked
#WhatDoMenEvenWantAnyway 🤷‍♀️