All I know is…
I’m done looking over my shoulder.
The past taught me everything I needed to learn — and now, I’m moving forward.
Not toward perfection.
Not toward fairy tales.
But toward a future filled with genuine love, soft places to land, and real joy — the kind that doesn’t come with conditions or control.
This time, I get to celebrate birthdays without drama.
I get to look forward to Christmas without tension.
I get to enjoy Valentine’s Day without cold silences or sarcasm.
Weekends away, holidays, little surprises — not as bargaining tools, but as the simple, beautiful rituals of being loved properly.
This time, I’m not settling for the bare minimum.
No more “crumbs” disguised as kindness.
No more emotional confusion masked as “passion.”
No more keeping quiet to keep the peace.
✨ I want the real thing.
I want the:
🌷 Just-because flowers
🍫 Chocolate on a Tuesday
📝 Notes slipped into bags with kind words
🧳 Spontaneous getaways with no guilt trips
🎁 Thoughtful gifts that say, “I see you. I know you.”
And above all, I want freedom.
Freedom to be myself.
Freedom to celebrate life.
Freedom from eggshells and expectations.
I’m not asking for marriage.
I’m asking for meaning.
For intentional love.
For kindness that doesn’t need a holiday.
For partnership that feels like home, not a battlefield.
Because I’ve spent too many years surviving.
Now, I’m ready to thrive.
To receive love that fills me up—not drains me.
To be appreciated, cherished, and celebrated—not tolerated or tested.
So here’s to being spoilt with kindness,
Not because I asked…
But because I’m finally choosing people who want to give.
No more drama. No more crumbs.
Just love. Real love. The kind that doesn’t hurt.
#ThisIsWhatILiveFor
#NoMoreBreadcrumbs
#LoveWithoutConditions
#SpoiltWithKindness
#PeaceOverPain
#FinallyFreeToCelebrate
