When They Can’t Let Go — and Won’t Leave You Alone

There comes a point when it’s no longer just “keeping tabs” or “being curious.”
It’s stalking.
It’s invasive.
It’s toxic.

And it needs to stop.

Despite clear boundaries, a restraining order, and multiple warnings, certain people just can’t seem to get on with their own lives. Instead, they sit behind screens, prying into mine — and now they’ve moved on to watching my friends and loved ones too.

Let me be clear:
This is not love.
This is not concern.
This is obsession and control—dressed up as “family loyalty.”

Even those closest to me have seen it. My friends. My family. They’ve told me to block, report, ignore. They can see what I see:
💥 The pattern of stalking
💥 The unhealthy obsession
💥 The refusal to let go

It’s disturbing, and it’s sad. Because when people focus so hard on tearing someone else down, it usually means one thing:
They have no life of their own.

To anyone dealing with this: You don’t have to explain yourself. You don’t have to tolerate toxic behaviors because “they’re family.” Family doesn’t break laws. Family doesn’t stalk you online. And family doesn’t sabotage your peace because they can’t control you anymore.

To those watching my page, watching my friends, watching my life:
👀 It’s time to get a life of your own.
🧱 My boundaries are firm.
🚫 Your access has been revoked.

This behavior has already been reported to the Guardia Civil, my lawyer, and my psychologist. Breaking a restraining order isn’t just petty—it’s illegal. And it will be dealt with accordingly.

I will not be silenced.
I will not be intimidated.
And I will not be dragged back into the chaos I left behind.

This post is for clarity.
This post is for truth.
This post is for every survivor who has had enough.

#NotThePersonYouThinkTheyAre
#StalkingIsAbuse
#RestrainingOrderViolation
#EmotionalAbuseAwareness
#SurvivorStrong
#ToxicFamilyDynamics
#DigitalBoundaries
#BreakFreeLiveFree

— Linda C J Turner

Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment