“Decide for Yourself: When the Truth Is in Their Own Words”
There are times in life when you don’t need to explain, argue, or justify anything.
You simply present the facts.
You hold up the truth like a mirror—and let people see for themselves what kind of reflection stares back.
This is one of those times.
A message. A few sentences sent over WhatsApp.
Nothing dramatic on the surface. No shouting. No threats. No cruel insults.
But read it carefully, and you’ll see exactly who someone is when they think no one is watching.
This message—this seemingly casual, offhand comment—was admitted into court alongside a mountain of other evidence.
Not hearsay.
Not speculation.
Their own words. Typed with intention. Sent with certainty.
And now, visible for all to see.
And so I ask—what kind of person says something like that?
What kind of person acts without compassion, without accountability, and without a shred of empathy?
What kind of sister chooses silence over support, cruelty over care, and alliances over ethics?
I don’t have to answer those questions anymore.
I used to try. I used to twist myself in knots trying to find reasons—family loyalty, childhood trauma, pressure, ignorance. I made every excuse in the book to keep the illusion intact.
But illusions don’t hold up in court.
And they certainly don’t hold up under the weight of cold, hard truth.
The message was real. The harm was real. The betrayal was real.
But so is my healing.
What I’ve come to realize is that decent people don’t need to be coached to do the right thing.
They don’t need to be begged to show empathy.
They don’t turn a blind eye when someone is being hurt.
So now, I no longer argue. I no longer explain.
I simply hold up the words.
And I let the world decide.
Because I know what kind of person I am.
And I know what kind of people I choose to surround myself with from this moment forward.
As for the rest?
Well…
You read the message.
You decide for yourself.
One week after the event “to get the ball rolling “ his sister just couldn’t wait!!!!! No talk of reconciliation, got the children out of the way asap
24th October – copy of whats app messages
[24/10/24, 15:47:00] lindacjturner: Linda I’ve spoken in depth to XXXX he wants to sell the house as much as you and get out of Moraira especially in view of his diagnosis. Whatever you think he’s totally calm and needs to speak with you about the sale and information regarding visas etc. as you’ve blocked him from all contact I’ve suggested using me as the middle ground as there will obviously be so much to discuss- he has suggested to meet on neutral ground somewhere in moraira to get the ball rolling but if this is unacceptable then contact me I’ve said the same to XXXXXXXXXX (XXXXXXXdaughter) . The police are now monitoring the house as there appears to be someone attempting to gain access which is concerning – The police thing is a lie I checked with the Guardia Civil – evidence to the court to show why type of person she is – a complelety different version to what he was telling me !!!!!!!!!
I return from the Police station after making a report – His XXXX is at the house has locked the door and left the key in so I cant unlock it. His XXXXX came towards me with clenched fists and said my dad is dying of cancer and you went to the UK during his treatment and left him. I said your dad tried to break my arm, and it’s not the first time he has physically abused me. He replied “my dad has ruined my childhood ,how do you think I feel watching him physically abusing my mother for years”. This was all in front of his own son.
This is an accurate statement taken from whats app and admitted to the court with all the other evidence. Decide for your self what type of person the sister is?
