Key Global Prevalence Figures

Here are some of the most recent global estimates and statistics on physical, emotional/psychological, and financial abuse, including intimate partner, elder, children-abuse, etc. These are prevalence figures, not always “reported crimes,” because underreporting is a major issue. Key Global Prevalence Figures Population / Type Abuse Type Prevalence / Key Stats Violence against women (intimate partner /… Read More Key Global Prevalence Figures

Reclaiming Myself: From Decades of Deprivation to Living Life on My Terms

Recently, I had an enormous clear-out. I went through every wardrobe, every drawer, and every hanger — and removed the clothes I had been wearing for the past 30 years. Clothes my mother had passed down to me, clothes my daughter had given me, and endless second-hand items that I accepted because, for decades, I was restricted… Read More Reclaiming Myself: From Decades of Deprivation to Living Life on My Terms

Choosing My Own Freedom: How Resourcefulness and Resilience Carried Me to a Life-Changing Decision

For three decades, I lived in a marriage defined more by negativity than by love, support, or growth. And yet, anyone who knows me would describe me as a positive and resilient person. That duality — optimism on the inside, toxicity on the outside — was my reality for many years. The “R & R” That Became… Read More Choosing My Own Freedom: How Resourcefulness and Resilience Carried Me to a Life-Changing Decision

You Are What You Think: How Your Thoughts Shape Your Actions

The saying “you are what you think” isn’t just motivational—it’s rooted in psychology and neuroscience. The way we interpret the world directly influences how we feel, how we behave, and even how our brain wires itself over time. 1. The Psychology of Thoughts → Emotions → Actions In cognitive psychology, this is often described through the cognitive triangle:… Read More You Are What You Think: How Your Thoughts Shape Your Actions

The Psychological & Neuroscientific Effects of Gratitude for Everyday Joys

🌞 Sunshine 🐕 Connection with Your Dog ☀️ Peace and Calm 💛 Kindness, Softness, Support, Thoughtfulness 🙂 Presence, Smiles, and Laughter 🧠 The Bigger Picture: Neuroplasticity of Daily Gratitude Every time you notice and savour these things — sunshine, your dog, peace, kindness — your brain’s neural pathways for safety and joy strengthen. This is neuroplasticity… Read More The Psychological & Neuroscientific Effects of Gratitude for Everyday Joys

When Abusers Turn Family Into Enemies: The Psychology of Divide-and-Conquer

One of the most painful tactics of coercive control is when the abuser pits you against your own family. They exploit natural tensions, twist conversations, and create false narratives until you feel like you’re at war with the very people who should be your support system. This isn’t accidental conflict. It’s a deliberate psychological strategy.… Read More When Abusers Turn Family Into Enemies: The Psychology of Divide-and-Conquer