Category: LINDA C J TURNER – Trauma Therapist

🇪🇸 DIVORCE IN SPAIN INVOLVING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

When a divorce in Spain involves domestic violence (“violencia de género”), the process is handled with special legal protections and urgency to safeguard the victim. Below is a clear overview of how it works — legally, practically, and emotionally. 🇪🇸 DIVORCE IN SPAIN INVOLVING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE 1. Immediate Protection Comes First If domestic violence has occurred, the family court (“Juzgado… Read More 🇪🇸 DIVORCE IN SPAIN INVOLVING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

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Legal ethics, criminal law, and civil protection

Someone using an aggressive lawyer to make threats or engage in illegal behaviour in Spain — can be serious. While lawyers are supposed to advocate for their clients, there are limits: legal ethics, criminal law, and civil protections. Here’s a detailed breakdown: 1. What counts as illegal or abusive behaviour through a lawyer ⚠ Important: The law distinguishes aggressive… Read More Legal ethics, criminal law, and civil protection

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Protection and Support for Women in Spain

Emergency Contacts Service Phone Notes Emergency Services 112 Police, ambulance, urgent help (all emergencies) National Gender Violence Helpline 016 Free, confidential, anonymous. No trace on phone bill. Available 24/7 Teléfono de la Esperanza 717 003 717 Emotional support and crisis counselling Legal Protections Support Services Immediate Steps if Threatened or Abused How They Support You… Read More Protection and Support for Women in Spain

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Coercion, Threats & Divorce: Evidence Checklist & Support Contacts

(UK / Spain) Step 1: Preserve Evidence Safely Keep digital or physical copies without putting yourself at risk. Type of Evidence What to Collect / Save Messages / Emails Texts, WhatsApps, Messenger, emails showing threats, pressure, or demands. Include timestamps. Voicemails / Recordings Save threatening calls or voice notes. Check local law before recording. Witnesses Names… Read More Coercion, Threats & Divorce: Evidence Checklist & Support Contacts

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Drop the court case!

Demanding someone drop a court case and threatening they’ll “get nothing” in the divorce unless they do — can amount to coercive/controlling behaviour, threats, blackmail or undue pressure. It can be criminal and it will also affect family/civil proceedings (and the safety of the person pressured). Crown Prosecution Service+1 Below I’ve summarised what that means in practice,… Read More Drop the court case!

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Putting someone under excessive pressure when they are suicidal — coercive control as a weapon

Summary When a person is suicidal, pressuring, threatening, shaming, or isolating them to get compliance is not only cruel — it is a form of coercive control that dramatically increases risk of self-harm and suicide. This behaviour exploits vulnerability, amplifies fear and hopelessness, and may be criminal in many jurisdictions. (See legal guidance and evidence… Read More Putting someone under excessive pressure when they are suicidal — coercive control as a weapon

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The Neuroscience of Coercive Control in Divorce: How Threats Hijack the Brain and How to Break Free

By Linda Carol When a relationship ends, it should bring space for calm. But for many survivors of coercive or emotionally abusive marriages, separation is not peace — it’s the beginning of a new battle for psychological freedom. Threats, intimidation, and manipulative contact often intensify just as the survivor tries to disconnect. Neuroscience helps us understand… Read More The Neuroscience of Coercive Control in Divorce: How Threats Hijack the Brain and How to Break Free

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The Psychology of Digital Intimidation: Why Some Abusers Escalate During Divorce

By Linda Carol When a relationship ends, healthy people grieve, reflect, and eventually rebuild.Abusive people, however, often do something different: they intensify control.They move from affectionate texts to weaponized messages — from WhatsApp to email — using new channels to reassert power, rewrite the story, and destabilize the person trying to break free. This pattern is… Read More The Psychology of Digital Intimidation: Why Some Abusers Escalate During Divorce

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