Author: Linda C J Turner

Linda C J Turner - Your Journey to Emotional Wellness | Emotional Trauma Therapist | EMDR | CBT | NLP |

Self-sabotage meets impulsivity.

A classic example of self-destructive, vindictive behavior from a neuroscience and psychology perspective. Let’s unpack it carefully. 1. The Brain and Self-Destruction When someone ruins their own life, there’s often a combination of: Essentially, their brain is often wired to seek short-term emotional relief, even at the expense of long-term outcomes. 2. Projection and External Blame Trying to destroy everyone else after self-sabotage often… Read More Self-sabotage meets impulsivity.

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“Guilty by Association”

“guilty by association” in the context of a spouse who knowingly allows or ignores a partner’s misconduct, specifically when the husband is extracting funds from a company while both are in positions of trust. Let’s break this down carefully from both legal and professional responsibility perspectives. 1. Legal Perspective Guilty by association is not usually a formal legal… Read More “Guilty by Association”

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Warning Signs of Life-Long Vindictive Behavior

Category Signs / Behaviors What It Means / Risk Personal History Chronic grudges, past relationships ended bitterly, frequent disputes with colleagues/friends Indicates unresolved resentment that may drive future retaliation Revenge Motivation Obsession with slights, perceived injustices, rejection Revenge is a core motivator, not occasional anger Social Strategy Aligns with like-minded allies or family to reinforce… Read More Warning Signs of Life-Long Vindictive Behavior

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Innate Temperament vs Life Experience

A deeply ingrained psychological pattern often linked to chronic resentment and vindictiveness. Here’s a breakdown from a neuroscience and psychology perspective: 1. Innate Temperament vs Life Experience 2. Neuroscience of Revenge 3. Social Reinforcement 4. Psychological Traits Commonly Seen 5. The Danger This is why recognizing these traits early and protecting yourself—emotionally, socially, and legally—is crucial.

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Exploitation

People who make a living off exploiting others’ vulnerabilities—like waiting for someone to die to manipulate wills or inheritances—often rely on certain traits and dynamics that neuroscience and psychology help explain. Here’s a breakdown: 1. Manipulative Behavior and the Brain 2. Psychopathy & Narcissism Neuroscience shows differences in connectivity between the prefrontal cortex and limbic system in… Read More Exploitation

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When Manipulators Go Into Meltdown: Understanding the Neuroscience and Psychology

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Watching someone escalate their tactics can sometimes feel almost surreal. They seem to spiral, their behavior becomes erratic, and it’s tempting to think: they must be going into a meltdown. Neuroscience and psychology explain why this happens. 1️⃣ The Brain Under Stress When manipulative individuals encounter resistance or fail to control a situation, their nervous… Read More When Manipulators Go Into Meltdown: Understanding the Neuroscience and Psychology

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How Low People Will Go: Manipulation, Property, and the Brain

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

It’s almost laughable how far some people will go when trying to manipulate a situation — especially when property, money, or control is involved. I’ve seen it firsthand: I sold the house once on my own, without an agent, and they did nothing. Now, suddenly, they’re trying to force a sale. 1️⃣ The Psychology of… Read More How Low People Will Go: Manipulation, Property, and the Brain

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Recognizing Manipulation: When Dealing with Liars and Criminals

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Some people are so transparent that their behavior is almost predictable. When you’re dealing with liars, manipulators, or people with criminal tendencies, understanding their tactics can save you from emotional, financial, and legal pitfalls. 1️⃣ Transparency Reveals Manipulation Not everyone is skilled at hiding their intentions. Many manipulators leave clues — in their words, their… Read More Recognizing Manipulation: When Dealing with Liars and Criminals

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The Extreme Measures People Take to Control and Force You Out of Your Own Home

Few experiences are as destabilizing as feeling threatened in your own home. Whether it’s through legal maneuvers, financial pressure, or psychological tactics, some people will go to extreme lengths to assert control — even over property that is legally shared or personally yours. Understanding why this happens requires both a psychological and neuroscientific perspective. 1️⃣… Read More The Extreme Measures People Take to Control and Force You Out of Your Own Home

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