Over the past few months, Iāve been supporting three friends ā quietly, voluntarily ā as they navigated painful, familiar terrain. Abuse. Trauma. Recovery. Healing.
It wasnāt planned. It wasnāt formal. But it came so naturally.
And in those quiet conversations, those moments of empathy, reflection, and understanding, something within me clicked back into place.
This is what Iām meant to do.
Itās what Iāve always been meant to do.
Helping others make sense of their pain, reclaim their identity, and rewrite their story is not just something I can do ā itās something I was born to do.
š§ Supporting Others Kept Me Anchored
Volunteering my time to support others while walking my own healing path has been both grounding and enlightening. Itās kept me accountable. Itās been a mirror, reflecting back the growth I didnāt always see in myself. Itās reminded me of how far Iāve come, and why the work matters.
Sometimes, walking alongside others becomes the very thing that reawakens your own sense of purpose.
š Looking Back to Move Forward
This week, I opened up my clinical notes from the past few years ā old client reflections, success stories, breakthroughs I had the privilege of witnessing. It moved me to tears.
Because I remembered who I am.
Not the broken version someone once tried to convince me I was.
Not the silenced, doubted version that lived in survival mode for far too long.
But the woman who built her life on compassion, neuroscience, emotional intelligence, and lived experience.
The woman clients trusted.
The woman who held space with strength and softness.
The woman who helped others rise ā and who is now rising herself.
š Itās Time to Come Back
Not out of pressure. Not out of desperation. But out of alignment.
After months of recalibrating, healing, and restoring my nervous system, Iām ready to return to the work that sets my soul on fire.
Trauma therapy isnāt just a job. Itās my path.
One I first stepped onto 25 years ago, and one Iām proud to walk again ā this time, from a place of clarity, peace, and deep inner knowing.
š«¶ If Youāre on Your Healing Path Tooā¦
Please know: sometimes, we have to pause before we re-engage. Sometimes, we need to heal before we help. But your purpose is still within you. Your skills are still valid. And your story might just be the very thing that brings someone else through theirs.
Iām coming back.
With more empathy.
More wisdom.
More resilience than ever before.
And I canāt wait to walk beside those who are ready to heal, too.
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