We talk a lot about choosing peace. About taking the high road. About not reacting. And yes — that’s beautiful, and powerful. But here’s the truth no one says out loud:
You can’t choose peace while you’re still in survival mode.
Not genuinely. Not sustainably.
Not while you’re still flinching from the next blow — whether it’s emotional, verbal, psychological, or physical.
Peace is not a switch you flip while standing in the middle of a battlefield.
Peace requires distance.
It needs safety.
It begins when you can finally breathe again.
🌀 When You’re in the Eye of the Storm…
You’re not failing if you feel reactive.
You’re not weak if you’re exhausted, overwhelmed, or triggered.
You’re human.
And when you’re surrounded by cruelty, control, or chaos, your nervous system is doing exactly what it’s designed to do — protect you.
This is not the time to preach peace to yourself.
This is the time to get out, step back, and shelter yourself.
Let peace be something you move toward, not pressure yourself to perform.
🌿 Peace Comes Later — And That’s Okay
Later — when you’re in a space of safety.
Later — when you’ve slept. When you’ve cried. When you’ve told your story to someone who believed you.
Later — when the noise stops and you can finally hear your own voice again.
That’s when peace becomes a choice.
And you will choose it.
You will feel the pull of calm over conflict.
You’ll find yourself smiling at things that used to enrage you — because they no longer own you.
You’ll pause not out of fear, but from power.
But if you can’t do that today — it’s okay.
💬 “Peace isn’t chosen in chaos. It’s created in safety. Start there.”
Let’s stop asking people to be peaceful while they’re drowning.
Let’s offer them a lifeboat instead.
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