We all have a story.
Some of it has been lived in full color, shared openly with friends and strangers alike. Other parts — the painful chapters, the moments we barely survived — we’ve hidden away, either out of fear, shame, or protection.
But something powerful happens when we decide to share our story — authentically.
Not filtered for perfection.
Not exaggerated for drama.
Just… honest. Real. Raw. Human.
So how do we share our story in a way that’s authentic, respectful of our journey, and supportive of our healing?
Here are a few gentle reflections:
🔹 1. Share from the scar, not the wound
It’s okay to wait. You don’t need to speak until you’re ready. Authentic storytelling doesn’t mean bleeding out on the page or stage — it means reflecting on your journey with clarity and care. Speak when you feel grounded enough in your healing to say, “This is what happened, and this is how I’ve grown.”
🔹 2. Know your “why”
Are you sharing to inspire? To help others feel less alone? To release what you’ve held in for too long? Or just to say, “This is me, unfiltered.” Knowing your intention helps you speak from your heart — not from pressure or performance.
🔹 3. Honour your truth — even the messy parts
Authenticity doesn’t require you to have it all figured out. You can say, “I’m still healing,” or “I don’t have all the answers.” That’s real. That’s powerful. And most importantly, that’s relatable.
🔹 4. Don’t worry about being perfect — just be you
You don’t need polished words or poetic prose. What people connect with is real emotion. Your vulnerability, your pauses, your truths — they are enough.
🔹 5. Protect what you need to protect
Authenticity doesn’t mean overexposure. You are allowed to set boundaries. You can leave out names, dates, or certain details that still feel tender. Authenticity is about honesty, not total disclosure.
🔹 6. Be open to different responses
Some will celebrate your courage. Others may go silent. A few may not understand. That’s okay. Your story isn’t up for debate — it’s yours. The act of sharing, in itself, is a declaration of self-respect, strength, and healing.
🔹 7. Connect, don’t convince
You’re not here to prove anything. You’re here to connect — with others who may feel less alone because of your words. With yourself, as you reclaim your voice. And with the world, as you show up not as someone broken, but as someone becoming.
Your story has power.
It may be the key to someone else’s understanding, the bridge to empathy, the balm for a silent heart. And it will always be a part of your healing — when you’re ready, in your own words, and in your own time.
Keep sharing. Keep healing. Keep being authentically you. 💛
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— Linda C J Turner
Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment
