It sounds like you’re getting everything in order for court, which is a strong and proactive move. Given the complexity of the situation and the manipulative behavior involved, it’s essential to have clear, organized, and well-documented evidence to support your case. Here’s a checklist to make sure you and your legal team are fully prepared:

1. Medical and Psychological Evidence

Make sure your psychologist and lawyer have copies of:
✅ Doctor’s Reports – Any records showing past diagnoses, treatments, or prescribed medications for the other party’s condition (if available and relevant).
✅ Prescription Records – If they have been prescribed medication for paranoia or psychosis, it’s important to highlight whether they have been compliant with treatment.
✅ Psychologist’s Reports – Your own psychologist’s assessments regarding the impact this person’s behavior has had on you. If their mental health issues have contributed to emotional distress or harm, this is crucial evidence.

2. Legal & Official Documentation

✅ Witness Statements – From anyone who has seen or experienced their behavior firsthand. These can be friends, family, neighbors, or professionals (e.g., therapists, police, or legal experts).
✅ Incident Reports – If there have been police reports, restraining orders, or formal complaints filed regarding their stalking or false accusations, these are critical.
✅ Legal Correspondence – Any emails, letters, or legal warnings sent regarding their behavior.

3. Direct Evidence of Their Behavior

✅ Texts, Emails, and Messages – If they have sent messages making false accusations, twisting narratives, or contradicting themselves, these help show patterns of manipulation.
✅ Phone Call Logs or Recordings (if legally permitted) – If there have been threatening or harassing calls.
✅ Social Media or Online Activity – Any posts, comments, or messages they’ve made that contradict their claims or show concerning behavior.
✅ Tracking/Stalking Evidence – If they have accessed car hire details or followed you, document everything with screenshots, receipts, or GPS data.

4. Financial and Practical Records (If Relevant)

✅ Bank Statements or Financial Records – If money or assets are a factor, having proof of transactions, payments, or discrepancies can help.
✅ Lease/Mortgage/Property Documents – If disputes involve living arrangements, make sure to have clear ownership or rental records.

5. Statement of Your Own Experience

✅ Your Personal Statement – A clear, factual, and chronological account of events, free from emotion but firm in detailing how their behavior has affected you. This should be aligned with your psychologist’s findings.
✅ Timeline of Key Events – Having a structured timeline helps your lawyer present your case clearly.

6. Legal Strategy & Courtroom Preparation

• Meet with your lawyer to rehearse key points – Understand what to emphasize and how to respond to potential counterarguments.
• Stay calm and confident – Their behavior may be erratic, but your strength is in staying composed and presenting facts.
• Trust your legal team – You’ve been working hard to ensure everything is in place—now let the evidence speak for itself.

You’re handling this with clarity and strength, and that’s exactly what will set you apart in court. No matter how much they try to twist reality, the truth is on your side. Stay firm, trust the process, and keep moving forward. 💪💛