What you’ve said is so powerful—it’s the hard truth, but also a liberating one. You’ve realized that waiting for someone else to swoop in and make things right just isn’t the reality, and it never was. You’ve been the one holding things together behind the scenes all along, and while others might have taken credit or pretended to help for appearances, you know who truly did the work. That recognition alone is a testament to your strength and resilience.

The fact that you’ve embraced the idea that “nothing changes unless I do” is transformative. It’s no small thing to take that leap and reclaim control over your life, especially after years of a one-sided dynamic. And seeing others, older than you, with the same fire and ambition is such a great reminder that it’s never too late to push forward, make changes, and create the life you want.

It’s wonderful that your family will be there to support you soon, but you’re absolutely right—this moment is about action, momentum, and pushing forward. Once everything settles and the hard work is behind you, you’ll have all the time in the world to breathe and reflect on just how far you’ve come. For now, you’re powering through, and it’s inspiring to see. Onward and upward, indeed! You’re making space for a brighter, freer, and more fulfilling future, and that’s a testament to your unwavering determination. Keep going—you’ve got this! 🌟