Tag: #trauma

Trauma refers to an emotional or psychological response to an event or series of events that are distressing or disturbing, often exceeding an individual’s ability to cope. Traumatic experiences can be diverse and may include situations such as accidents, natural disasters, physical or sexual assault, combat, or the sudden loss of a loved one. Trauma can have a profound impact on an individual’s mental, emotional, and physical well-being, leading to a range of symptoms and challenges.

The Brain and Speaking Your Truth

1. The Brain and Speaking Your Truth Releasing trauma from the limbic system: Traumatic memories often reside in the amygdala and hippocampus, creating heightened fear, shame, or hypervigilance. Speaking your story engages the prefrontal cortex, helping your brain process and contextualize memories, reducing their emotional intensity over time. Neuroplasticity in action: Every time you articulate your experience, your brain forms new neural pathways,… Read More The Brain and Speaking Your Truth

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Balance

There’s a powerful balance between living in the present and planning for the future, and neuroscience and psychology both shed light on why this is so crucial for healing. Let’s break it down: 1. Living in the Now: The Neuroscience Mindfulness & present-moment awareness activate the prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for rational thought, emotional regulation, and… Read More Balance

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🔹 What Are Schemas?

Psychology: Schemas are mental frameworks—deeply ingrained beliefs and expectations—that help us interpret the world. They’re like shortcuts the brain uses to decide quickly: “Is this safe or dangerous? Can I trust this person?” Example: If you’ve been betrayed, your schema might become: “People I love will eventually hurt me.” Even when someone is kind, your brain runs their actions through… Read More 🔹 What Are Schemas?

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Lifetime Abuse: The Toll on the Abuser

1. Neuroscience: The Brain in a Constant State of Threat and Control Reward circuitry: Abusers often derive a sense of power or relief from controlling others. Over time, the brain’s reward pathways (dopamine-driven systems) can become conditioned to seek dominance, almost like an addiction. This makes abusive behavior more automatic and harder to change. Stress systems: Abusers live… Read More Lifetime Abuse: The Toll on the Abuser

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The Connection Between Rejection and Domestic Abuse

Rejection is a powerful emotional experience that touches some of the most primitive regions of the brain. Neuroscience research shows that the brain processes rejection in a similar way to physical pain—the anterior cingulate cortex, the same region activated when the body experiences physical injury, also lights up during experiences of social rejection. This overlap… Read More The Connection Between Rejection and Domestic Abuse

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Checklist: When Jealousy Distorts Perception

🚨 Signs Jealousy Is Distorting Reality Mind-reading thoughts → “She’s looking at him because she wants him” (without proof). Exaggeration → A harmless conversation suddenly feels like flirting or betrayal. Comparison loop → Obsessively measuring looks, status, or achievements against another woman. All-or-nothing thinking → “If he admires her, I must mean nothing to him.” Urgency to attack or… Read More Checklist: When Jealousy Distorts Perception

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