Tag: #trauma

Trauma refers to an emotional or psychological response to an event or series of events that are distressing or disturbing, often exceeding an individual’s ability to cope. Traumatic experiences can be diverse and may include situations such as accidents, natural disasters, physical or sexual assault, combat, or the sudden loss of a loved one. Trauma can have a profound impact on an individual’s mental, emotional, and physical well-being, leading to a range of symptoms and challenges.

Effective Therapeutic Approaches

1. Trauma-Focused Therapy Helps the brain process traumatic memories without reliving them fully. Reduces emotional charge, anxiety, and flashbacks. Especially effective for life-threatening trauma like strangulation. Helps survivors reframe thoughts and beliefs formed during abuse. Builds coping skills for fear, anxiety, and hypervigilance. Strangulation trauma often leaves physical nervous system imprints. Therapies like somatic experiencing, sensorimotor psychotherapy, or trauma-informed yoga help release… Read More Effective Therapeutic Approaches

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Statistics & Prevalence

Here’s a clear, evidence-based overview of what research shows about non-fatal strangulation — including how common it is, how it affects survivors physically and psychologically, and what we know about how it impacts the person doing the strangulation (to the extent research addresses that). This is grounded in scientific literature and public health data. 📊 Statistics & Prevalence Non-fatal strangulation (NFS) is recognised… Read More Statistics & Prevalence

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Talking About Strangulation in Therapy: Why It’s So Hard — and How EMDR Can Help

Talking about strangulation in therapy is not just “talking about a memory.”For many survivors, describing the sensations, fear, and loss of control can reactivate the trauma itself. This is not resistance.It is how the nervous system remembers danger. Why Describing It Feels Overwhelming Strangulation is a primal threat to survival. When it happened, the brain and body… Read More Talking About Strangulation in Therapy: Why It’s So Hard — and How EMDR Can Help

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Strangulation is not about the situation.It is about the person who chooses to use it.

The Short Answer Future partners can absolutely be in danger It is not “just that relationship” Strangulation is a marker of a high-risk abuser, not a one-off loss of control Why Strangulation Is Different Strangulation isn’t an impulsive shove or shouted argument. It is: A deliberate act A control behavior A willingness to bring someone to the edge… Read More Strangulation is not about the situation.It is about the person who chooses to use it.

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The core principle

Therapy is for truth.Law is for proof.Public statements are for boundaries. You do not owe full truth to every arena. 1. What to keep THERAPEUTIC ONLY These are essential for healing but usually not necessary or wise to share publicly or legally. Keep in therapy: Your emotional reactions (panic, shame, confusion) How messages triggered PTSD symptoms Inner dialogue (“I felt crazy”, “I doubted myself”) Childhood… Read More The core principle

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Harassing someone with PTSD who is already dealing with domestic violence

Plain truth Harassing a person who is known (or should reasonably be known) to have PTSD and is escaping or recovering from domestic violence is not “just harassment”.It is an aggravating form of psychological abuse. It compounds trauma and recreates the dynamics of coercive control. Why this is treated more seriously 1. Foreseeable harm When someone: Knows you’ve experienced… Read More Harassing someone with PTSD who is already dealing with domestic violence

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Entitlement isn’t confidence gone wrong

Entitlement isn’t confidence gone wrong — it’s powerlessness wrapped in dominance strategies. Here’s what’s happening under the hood, clinically and neurologically. 1. Core wound: unstable self-worth (developmental layer) Early experiences of: inconsistency unfairness emotional neglect conditional love humiliation or comparison can leave the brain with a fragile self-model: “I’m not inherently secure or valued.” This lives largely in implicit… Read More Entitlement isn’t confidence gone wrong

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The Neurophysiology of Trauma

Trauma is not just psychological—it physically changes the brain and body. Key Brain Structures Involved Structure Role in Trauma Amygdala Detects threats; hyperactive in trauma → fear, hypervigilance, emotional reactivity Hippocampus Contextualizes memories; trauma can reduce volume → fragmented, intrusive memories Prefrontal Cortex (PFC) Executive function, emotional regulation; trauma → impaired top-down control Anterior Cingulate Cortex… Read More The Neurophysiology of Trauma

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What Is Trauma‑Informed Care?

At its core, trauma‑informed care (TIC) means understanding how trauma affects a person’s brain, body, behaviour, and relationships — and using that understanding to shape how support is offered. Instead of asking: “What’s wrong with you?”A trauma‑informed approach asks:“What happened to you, and how can we help you feel safe?” This shift changes how people are seen,… Read More What Is Trauma‑Informed Care?

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Grooming of minors

What it is:A deliberate process where an adult (or older youth) builds trust with a child to prepare them for sexual exploitation. How it happens: Giving attention, gifts, compliments, or “special” status Pretending to be a friend, mentor, or romantic interest Slowly crossing boundaries (sexual talk, secrecy, “don’t tell”) Normalising sexual content or behaviour Isolating the child from… Read More Grooming of minors

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