Therapy, also known as psychotherapy or counseling, is a collaborative process between a trained mental health professional and an individual, couple, family, or group. The goal of therapy is to address and overcome emotional or psychological challenges, improve mental well-being, and facilitate personal growth and development. Therapists use various therapeutic approaches and techniques to help clients explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, ultimately leading to positive changes in their lives.
🌈 Variety Is the Spice of Life — And the Balm for the Soul By Linda C J Turner | Therapist, Survivor, Advocate for Emotional Well-being There’s a quiet kind of magic that happens when life becomes full of contrast: different people, varied conversations, new experiences, spontaneous get-togethers, holidays, and even quiet moments of reflection. After… Read More 🌈 Variety Is the Spice of Life — And the Balm for the Soul
By Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist, Survivor, Advocate Healing from long-term emotional abuse is not just about what happens in the therapist’s office. It’s about what happens in your everyday life. It’s in the rhythms, the rituals, the relationships. It’s in your body, your brain, and your nervous system. After years of psychological… Read More The Secret Sauce of Healing: Why a Nourished Life Supports a Nourished Mind
“It Was Never Me” — Reclaiming Sanity After Years of GaslightingBy Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist, Survivor, Advocate For years, I questioned my own sanity. Not because I was unstable, or mentally unwell.But because I was told I was.Repeatedly. Intentionally. Cruelly. 👉 “You’re unhinged.”👉 “No one will ever believe you.”👉 “It’s your personality, your past—it’s always you.” I… Read More “It Was Never Me” — Reclaiming Sanity After Years of Gaslighting
By Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Advocate I wrote it. Fifteen pages of truth. Thirty years of emotional abuse, psychological manipulation, gaslighting, control, neglect, threats, and pain—put into words. Poured onto the page for court. For truth. For myself. And now that it’s over…Now that the legal process has heard some of… Read More “I’m Not Ready Yet” — And That’s Okay
By Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Advocate It’s only when you look back—with clear eyes and therapeutic insight—that the full picture begins to emerge. At the time, you try to justify it:“He’s just having a bad day.”“It’s probably not a big deal.”“Maybe I’m asking for too much.” But then you begin to… Read More When Special Moments Are Stolen: The Subtle Cruelty of Coercive Control
By Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Advocate 🚩Red Flag: They won’t let you go to the doctor alone—because they fear what you might say.💔But when you truly need their support? A biopsy, a diagnosis, a moment of medical vulnerability… they’re suddenly “too busy,” detached, or disinterested. So what is this behavior really saying? From a psychological perspective,… Read More When an Abuser Controls Access to Medical Support
By Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Advocate One of the most painful experiences for a survivor is not just the abuse itself—but the moment they bravely reach out for help and are met with silence, disbelief, or denial from the abusers family. From a psychological point of view, this response is deeply… Read More When Family Turns Away: The Reinforcement of the Abuser’s Narrative
The Toll of Tolerating AbuseBy Linda C J Turner | Abuse in any form—whether emotional, physical, psychological, sexual, or financial—is never acceptable. Yet for many, abuse becomes a part of daily life, tolerated out of fear, confusion, hope for change, or even love. As a trauma therapist, I see first-hand how this prolonged exposure to… Read More Let’s break the silence and stop normalizing abuse.
By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate Ever found yourself thinking… 🔁 “Why do I keep choosing the wrong people?”🔁 “Why does this feel exactly like the last time?”🔁 “How did I end up in the same situation — again?” You’re not alone. And more importantly, you’re not broken. What you may be experiencing is something psychologists… Read More 🌀 Repetition Compulsion: Why We Keep Reliving Old Pain (Even When We Know Better)
By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate A Corrective Emotional Experience (CEE) can be the very heart of healing, especially for those who have been through long-term emotional abuse, neglect, or trauma. 🧠✨Corrective Emotional Experiences: The Psychology of Healing Through Connection✨ Have you ever had a moment with someone that made your whole body soften? Maybe… Read More Corrective Emotional Experience (CEE)
