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Stalking or watching young children — what is it?

It depends on intent, behaviour, and pattern, but persistent watching of children is a major red flag and can fall under criminal behaviour, even before physical contact. When “watching” becomes a concern It is not normal for an adult to: When this happens, it is often classified as predatory surveillance. Possible legal classifications (vary by country) Depending on behaviour and evidence, authorities may classify… Read More Stalking or watching young children — what is it?

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Why They Complain About You “Not Selling the House” While They Keep Removing the For-Sale Signs — Neuroscience + Abuse Dynamics

This is not logical behaviour; it is control-based behaviour.Removing “For Sale” signs while accusing you of blocking the sale is a classic pattern seen in coercive control, pathological insecurity, and individuals who cannot tolerate loss of power. Below is what this behaviour typically means. 1. Cognitive Dissonance (“Two Opposite Beliefs at Once”) The brain cannot reconcile the… Read More Why They Complain About You “Not Selling the House” While They Keep Removing the For-Sale Signs — Neuroscience + Abuse Dynamics

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Protective Measures (Medidas Cautelares) in Spain

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Protective measures are temporary legal actions designed to ensure the safety of victims and their children while legal proceedings, including divorce or criminal cases, are ongoing. These are often granted by the Juzgado de Violencia sobre la Mujer (Domestic Violence Court). 1. Types of Protective Measures a) Restraining Orders (Orden de Protección) b) Temporary Custody or Visitation Limits c) Removal from… Read More Protective Measures (Medidas Cautelares) in Spain

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How Abusive Fathers Impact Their Children and Grandchildren:

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

A Neuroscience & Epigenetics Explanation When a father is abusive — emotionally, physically, verbally, or psychologically — the damage does not stop with him. Modern neuroscience and epigenetics now confirm that trauma is inherited, not only through behaviour but also through biology. Children do not simply “grow out of it.”Generations absorb it. 1. The Child’s Brain… Read More How Abusive Fathers Impact Their Children and Grandchildren:

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Where Do We Learn Gratitude, Kindness, and Manners?

Gratitude, kindness, etiquette, and manners are often seen as “soft skills,” but they are foundational to human relationships. These behaviors are not innate — they are learned through a combination of family upbringing, cultural environment, education, and sometimes formal training. Let’s break down how we acquire them. 1. Family: The First Classroom The family is the… Read More Where Do We Learn Gratitude, Kindness, and Manners?

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Age Group Preferences (Based on Studies)

Research shows that paedophiles often have specific and consistent age preferences, rather than being indiscriminate. This is well-documented in neuroscience, forensic psychology, and criminology. Let’s break it down clearly and safely: 🧠 1. Clinical and Forensic Definitions 📊 2. Age Group Preferences (Based on Studies) Research (Seto, 2008; Blanchard et al., 2012) shows clear age-based targeting patterns: Category… Read More Age Group Preferences (Based on Studies)

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Tactical Guide: Presenting a Psychologist’s Report in Court

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

1️⃣ Structure the Report Clearly Tip: Number each section and use headings — judges and lawyers appreciate clear navigation. 2️⃣ Focus on Objectivity 3️⃣ Evidence Points to Include Tip: Courts value multiple sources of evidence that reinforce the psychologist’s conclusions. 4️⃣ Anticipate Challenges 5️⃣ Presentation in Court 6️⃣ Protective Measures 7️⃣ Recommended Phrasing Techniques ✅ Key Takeaway: The strongest report is neutral,… Read More Tactical Guide: Presenting a Psychologist’s Report in Court

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1️⃣ Understand the Purpose of the Report

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

A psychologist’s report can serve multiple functions in a divorce: Courts value objective, fact-based analysis over opinionated or emotional statements. 2️⃣ Work Closely With Your Lawyer 3️⃣ Focus on Objectivity Manipulative spouses often attack the credibility of psychological evidence. To counter this: 4️⃣ Document Manipulative Patterns 5️⃣ Anticipate Challenges Manipulative spouses may: To mitigate this: 6️⃣ Submission Process 7️⃣ Protect Yourself Psychologically High-conflict divorces can… Read More 1️⃣ Understand the Purpose of the Report

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Characteristics of Hidden Cruelty

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

“Hidden cruelty,” —likely referencing Alice Miller’s work on poisonous pedagogy—refers to subtle, socially accepted forms of harm inflicted on children that are not overtly recognized as abuse. Unlike obvious physical violence or screaming, hidden cruelty is covert, psychologically manipulative, or morally justified, making it hard for both children and society to label it as abusive. Let’s break it… Read More Characteristics of Hidden Cruelty

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The Importance of Early Mother-Infant Bonding

1. The Importance of Early Mother-Infant Bonding 2. Effects of an Authoritarian, Militaristic Father in Early Life 3. Psychological and Emotional Consequences 4. Neurobiological Perspective 5. Long-Term Outlook 💡 Summary Insight:Separation from a nurturing mother in the first weeks, combined with an authoritarian father, can set up a child for insecure attachment, hypervigilance, emotional dysregulation, and low… Read More The Importance of Early Mother-Infant Bonding

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