Tag: neuroscience of giving

All Take, No Give: The Science of Humans Who Live in Transaction Mode

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

You know them.The ones who: 🧠 The Neuroscience of Selfishness Your brain loves reciprocity. It’s hardwired for cooperation and social bonding. When we give, oxytocin floods our system, creating that warm, fuzzy, “I’m part of a tribe” feeling. But some people’s brains? Not so much.For them, dopamine is only triggered by gains, not connection. Emotional generosity, practical help, even basic… Read More All Take, No Give: The Science of Humans Who Live in Transaction Mode

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The Kindness Trap: When “Helpful” Becomes “Used-Up”

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

It starts innocently enough.You help. You lend. You sew. You bake. You listen. You fix. Before long, you’ve become the neighbourhood “Oh, she can do it!” “She’s got a sewing machine!”“She’s so kind — she’ll help you.”“Ask her, she’s the best!” And yes — you are the best.Until the day comes when you need help, and suddenly… tumbleweeds.The… Read More The Kindness Trap: When “Helpful” Becomes “Used-Up”

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