Tag: MENTAL HEALTH

Mental health refers to a person’s emotional, psychological, and social well-being, encompassing the ability to handle stress, relate to others, make decisions, and navigate the challenges of life. It influences how individuals think, feel, and act, contributing to the overall balance and quality of their lives. Mental health is essential at every stage of life, from childhood and adolescence through adulthood.

Withholding Affection and Using Degrading Comments: Two Powerful Tools of Emotional Abuse

Abuse is not always obvious. It does not always involve shouting, threats or physical violence. Sometimes it is expressed through what is deliberately withheld as much as through what is openly said. Affection, kindness and emotional warmth can become tools of control when they are given and withdrawn according to another person’s wishes. Combined with… Read More Withholding Affection and Using Degrading Comments: Two Powerful Tools of Emotional Abuse

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The Quiet Mask: Soft-Spoken in Public, Intimidating in Private

One of the greatest misconceptions about abusive people is that they are always loud, aggressive and obviously intimidating. In reality, many are the exact opposite. To neighbours, colleagues and friends, they may appear calm, polite, softly spoken and remarkably composed. They rarely raise their voice in public and often come across as thoughtful, charming or… Read More The Quiet Mask: Soft-Spoken in Public, Intimidating in Private

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When Generosity Is a Performance: The Hidden Reality of Impression Management and Financial Control

To the outside world, some relationships appear almost perfect. There are thoughtful gifts, expensive bottles of wine, luxury holidays, anniversary celebrations, and public displays of generosity. Friends and family see a partner who appears loving, successful and devoted. But appearances can be carefully managed. Behind closed doors, the reality may be completely different. The Two… Read More When Generosity Is a Performance: The Hidden Reality of Impression Management and Financial Control

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Benign Envy vs Malicious Envy: Understanding the Difference

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner © 2025 Linda Carol Turner. Content protected by copyright.
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Psychologists distinguish between benign envy and malicious envy. Although both involve wanting something another person has, they lead to very different thoughts, emotions and behaviours. Benign Envy Malicious Envy “I’d like to achieve that too.” “I don’t want them to have it.” Inspires self-improvement. Motivates attempts to reduce another person’s success. Leads to admiration and learning. Leads to… Read More Benign Envy vs Malicious Envy: Understanding the Difference

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Envy, Insecurity and Control:

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The Psychology and Neuroscience Behind Why Some Abusive Individuals Struggle With Another Person’s Happiness One of the most confusing experiences for many survivors is realising that their partner seemed unable to genuinely celebrate their happiness, achievements or independence. Whether it was a promotion at work, financial success, new friendships, growing confidence or simply enjoying life,… Read More Envy, Insecurity and Control:

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The Sunk Cost Fallacy: “I’ve Already Invested Too Much”

One of the most powerful psychological barriers to leaving an unhealthy relationship is something economists call the sunk cost fallacy. A sunk cost is anything that has already been invested and cannot be recovered. This may include money, time, emotional energy, years of commitment, shared experiences, a home, a marriage, children, friendships, or dreams for the future. From… Read More The Sunk Cost Fallacy: “I’ve Already Invested Too Much”

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When Recovery Begins: The Moment the Pattern Becomes Clear

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Recovery often begins long before a person leaves a difficult relationship. It begins with a change in perspective. Many survivors describe a moment when years of confusion suddenly start to make sense. It may happen after a conversation with a trusted friend, reading an article, speaking with a counsellor, or simply noticing that the same… Read More When Recovery Begins: The Moment the Pattern Becomes Clear

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Why People Stay in Harmful Relationships: Understanding Trauma Bonding, Intermittent Reinforcement, Confirmation Bias, the Sunk Cost Fallacy and Cognitive Dissonance

One of the most common questions people ask after leaving a harmful relationship is: “Why didn’t I leave sooner?” Friends and family often ask a similar question: “Why couldn’t they see what everyone else could see?” These questions have been studied for decades by psychologists and neuroscientists. The answer is rarely about weakness, lack of… Read More Why People Stay in Harmful Relationships: Understanding Trauma Bonding, Intermittent Reinforcement, Confirmation Bias, the Sunk Cost Fallacy and Cognitive Dissonance

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Cognitive Dissonance: Why the Mind Sometimes Protects Us from Painful Truths

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In 1957, psychologist Leon Festinger introduced the theory of cognitive dissonance, proposing that people experience psychological discomfort when they simultaneously hold two or more beliefs, values, or perceptions that contradict one another. The human brain strives for consistency. When our beliefs and our experiences do not match, the resulting tension can feel deeply uncomfortable. Rather than immediately changing… Read More Cognitive Dissonance: Why the Mind Sometimes Protects Us from Painful Truths

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