Abuse is a term that refers to the mistreatment, harm, or infliction of injury on someone, either through physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, or other means. Abuse can occur in various contexts, including relationships, families, institutions, and broader social settings. It is a serious violation of an individual’s rights and can have profound and lasting effects on their physical, emotional, and psychological well-being.
Yes, and here’s how it typically works: ✅ Can You Include Harassment from Other Family Members? Absolutely. If their harassment is connected to the original offense (e.g., trying to silence you, discredit you, or continue the abuse by proxy), you should include it. You can also mention: 📨 What About Insulting Emails and Texts? Yes, those can be… Read More 🧾 Can You Submit a Victim Impact Statement in Spain?
A victim impact statement is a written or verbal account given by a victim (or survivor) to the court, often during sentencing or parole hearings. It’s your opportunity to express: It is not a place to prove guilt—that’s the prosecution’s role—but rather a space to have your voice heard, formally and powerfully. 🧨 Why Include “Threats”? When someone tells you… Read More 📝 What Is a Victim Impact Statement?
There was a time when I stayed quiet.When I second-guessed myself.When I minimized the abuse because “he hadn’t hit me this time” or “maybe it’s not serious enough to report.” Those days are over. Because now, I know what abuse looks like in all its forms — the psychological games, the control, the obsession, the stalking, the breaking of boundaries… Read More 🚫 I Will Not Stop Reporting Him — Because the Silence is What Kept Me Trapped
Some truths are hard to swallow — especially when you’ve spent years hoping for change. But here’s the brutal reality many survivors come to understand: ❗Abusers don’t reform. They relocate. They rebrand. They repeat.They move from one generous, open-hearted person to the next.And their patterns are chillingly consistent. 🚩 The Facade of Integrity Abusers are… Read More 🧠 “They Don’t Change — They Just Change Victims”: The Neuroscience of Recognizing Abusers Early
🔐 The Briefcase of Secrets: When Love Was a Lie and You Were the Means to a LifestyleA Psychological Reflection on Financial Abuse, Coercive Control, and Narcissistic Exploitation There are moments in life when the final piece of the puzzle clicks into place — and suddenly, the image that once looked like love, partnership, and shared… Read More 🔚 The Ending Is the Beginning
When Dangerous Abusers Are Protected — Who’s Responsible When It All Goes Wrong? They knew.They all knew.The outbursts. The threats. The police reports. The violence.The emotional instability that spilled into physical harm.You spoke out. Maybe even begged them to get help. But they denied. Deflected. Defended.And when you left? They moved on — to the next person.A… Read More The Cover Up
🗣️ Saying the Right Thing Means Nothing If You Do NothingPolite concern without action is just another form of silence. When I finally told someone what had happened — that I’d been strangled, pinned to a wall, terrified for my life — I wasn’t looking for a parade. I wasn’t asking for a rescue mission.I… Read More Silence
🛑 Let’s Call It What It Is: Strangulation Is an Attempt to Kill.It is not a loss of control. It is the ultimate act of control. Strangulation is not a “heated moment.”It’s not a “fight that went too far.”It is not “choking.” Let’s be absolutely clear: Strangulation is putting your hands around someone’s throat and squeezing with… Read More Strangulation Is an Attempt to Kill.
I’m often asked:“What’s the difference between strangulation and choking?”And the truth is — there’s a huge difference. While these terms are often used interchangeably in everyday conversation — even in the media — they are not the same thing. In fact, confusing the two can be incredibly dangerous, especially for survivors of domestic violence. 🚫 Let’s be clear: Choking is accidental.… Read More 🔍 Strangulation vs. Choking — Why Words Matter Because calling it what it is could save a life.
🔁 Echoes of “I Swear I’ll Change” – The Cycle That Never Breaks ItselfStrong psychological perspective | Awareness & Empowerment Post “I’ll go to therapy.”“I’ll get back on the tablets.”“I’ll see a psychologist.”“I’ll try anger management again.”“I swear, this time will be different.” Sound familiar? These aren’t promises of change — they’re recycled scripts from a… Read More Change
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 