Tag: ABUSE

Abuse is a term that refers to the mistreatment, harm, or infliction of injury on someone, either through physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, or other means. Abuse can occur in various contexts, including relationships, families, institutions, and broader social settings. It is a serious violation of an individual’s rights and can have profound and lasting effects on their physical, emotional, and psychological well-being.

Not the Person You Think They Are: When Lies Get Caught on the Court

One of the strangest—and, honestly, almost surreal—aspects of emotional abuse and manipulation is how the stories people tell can crumble when reality steps onto the stage. A few weeks ago, during court proceedings, some rather pathetic lies were told about his health and condition. Yet, my friends from the choir—who also happen to play padel at the exact… Read More Not the Person You Think They Are: When Lies Get Caught on the Court

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Not the Person You Think They Are: When Public Personas Hide Private Realities

Two weeks before the “all clear,” the words echoed in a message I received:“I was shocked how ill he looked when I saw him, so this may be concluded sooner than you think.” What struck me most was the contradiction underneath those words. The very same person, behind closed doors, was playing tennis seven days a… Read More Not the Person You Think They Are: When Public Personas Hide Private Realities

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🎭 Not the Person You Think They Are – When Illness Becomes a Manipulation Tool 🎭

Twelve photographs of him playing padel – fit and healthy, mid-match. A hospital report from 4th November showing he’s completely clear. No terminal illness. No chronic condition. No impending doom. This is the same man who, under oath in court, portrayed himself as a weak, dying man in March this year. A victim of life.… Read More 🎭 Not the Person You Think They Are – When Illness Becomes a Manipulation Tool 🎭

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📱 If You Find Illicit Images of Minors on Someone’s Phone: What You Need to Know — And Do

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

In Spain, the possession, distribution, or production of illicit images involving minors — commonly referred to as child sexual abuse material (CSAM) — is not just unethical. It is a criminal offense punishable by severe penalties, even if the images are not shared but simply stored on a device. According to Spanish law, any visual content depicting individuals under 18 in… Read More 📱 If You Find Illicit Images of Minors on Someone’s Phone: What You Need to Know — And Do

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🌿 Coming Soon: A Safe, Healing Space for Survivors — Our Domestic Abuse Support Forum on Facebook

You are not alone. You never were.But when you’re in the midst of emotional or physical abuse, it can feel like no one understands. You may feel silenced, ashamed, or afraid to reach out. That’s why I’m creating something just for you—a private, supportive online community where you can breathe, speak, connect, and heal. 💬 COMING… Read More 🌿 Coming Soon: A Safe, Healing Space for Survivors — Our Domestic Abuse Support Forum on Facebook

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Supporting You: When and How to Leave Domestic Violence — You Don’t Have to Do This Alone

If you’re reading this, I want you to know something right from the start: you are not alone, and there is nothing wrong with you. Living in a situation where love, safety, and peace are missing takes a toll on the mind, heart, and nervous system. I’ve worked with many brave individuals who were told for years… Read More Supporting You: When and How to Leave Domestic Violence — You Don’t Have to Do This Alone

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📲 WHEN TO HAND OVER EVIDENCE: Standing Up to Digital Invasion with Courage and Clarity 🇬🇧🇪🇸

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

In the age of digital communication, our phones and social media accounts often hold our most intimate moments—private messages, personal photos, and emotional lifelines. So when someone hacks into those spaces, it isn’t just a cybercrime—it’s a deeply personal violation. But knowing when to go to the police, especially across two legal systems like the UK and… Read More 📲 WHEN TO HAND OVER EVIDENCE: Standing Up to Digital Invasion with Courage and Clarity 🇬🇧🇪🇸

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🚨 Why Reporting Illicit Images Involving Minors Is a Moral and Legal Imperative

#ProtectChildren #ReportAbuse #TraumaAwareness In today’s digital world, a disturbing reality hides behind closed screens: the possession or sharing of sexualized images of minors. Whether “discovered accidentally” or “sent by someone else,” these materials must be reported—immediately. In Spain, that means alerting the Guardia Civil, the branch of law enforcement responsible for cybercrime, gender violence, and child protection. But… Read More 🚨 Why Reporting Illicit Images Involving Minors Is a Moral and Legal Imperative

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Warning

Deciding whether to warn your abuser’s new partner about past abuse, especially something as severe as strangulation, is a deeply personal and complex decision. It involves weighing your safety, emotional well-being, and the potential impact on the new partner. Here’s a comprehensive look at the considerations involved: Understanding the Risks Strangulation is one of the… Read More Warning

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Strangulation: When It’s Time to Leave — What Comes Next

Strangulation is not just an act of violence — it is one of the clearest predictors of escalating abuse and potential homicide in domestic violence cases. Survivors often underestimate the seriousness of this form of assault, sometimes due to the absence of visible injuries. But make no mistake: strangulation is a form of power and… Read More Strangulation: When It’s Time to Leave — What Comes Next

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