Tag: ABUSE

Abuse is a term that refers to the mistreatment, harm, or infliction of injury on someone, either through physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, or other means. Abuse can occur in various contexts, including relationships, families, institutions, and broader social settings. It is a serious violation of an individual’s rights and can have profound and lasting effects on their physical, emotional, and psychological well-being.

🔁 “When Will They Turn on the New Partner?” – Understanding Abuse Patterns Through Psychology & Neuroscience

One of the most painful chapters in a survivor’s story is watching an abuser move on quickly—often to a new partner—while continuing to torment you from a distance. To outsiders, they appear reformed, romantic, even healed. But if you’ve lived through emotional or narcissistic abuse, you know how this pattern works. You may wonder: When will… Read More 🔁 “When Will They Turn on the New Partner?” – Understanding Abuse Patterns Through Psychology & Neuroscience

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Why Do Some People Keep Abusing You From a Distance, Even When They’re in the Wrong? A Neuroscientific and Psychological Perspective

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Even after leaving an abusive relationship or family dynamic, many survivors face a haunting reality: the abuse doesn’t always stop. It evolves. It becomes covert, distant, manipulative—like someone trying to quietly dismantle your life from afar. They may spread lies, try to turn others against you, or attempt to take away your home, income, or… Read More Why Do Some People Keep Abusing You From a Distance, Even When They’re in the Wrong? A Neuroscientific and Psychological Perspective

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🧠✨ “When the Story Becomes the Trap: How Abusers Use Confirmation Bias”

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

A truth survivors need to hear. One of the most insidious tools in emotional abuse isn’t shouting, hitting, or name-calling. It’s subtle suggestion—repeated just enough that it starts to feel like truth.And over time, your brain starts looking for “proof” of that story everywhere. This is confirmation bias in action.And when it’s used against you in a toxic… Read More 🧠✨ “When the Story Becomes the Trap: How Abusers Use Confirmation Bias”

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The Collapse of the False Self: Why I Am No Longer Anyone’s Relief

There comes a moment in every survivor’s healing when the veil lifts — and we finally see it clearly: the person we loved never really existed. Not in the way we believed. What we were engaging with was a constructed version of a person — a False Self — built entirely on control, performance, and image. 🪞 The… Read More The Collapse of the False Self: Why I Am No Longer Anyone’s Relief

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Smoke and Mirrors: The Anniversary Gift That Was Never Really Yours

In emotionally abusive relationships, moments that should be special — like anniversaries — are often laced with confusion, shame, and hurt. Not because of what is given or not given, but because of how it’s done. Behind every “grand gesture” is often a deeper agenda: control, manipulation, or self-image preservation. And sometimes, the greatest betrayal isn’t just… Read More Smoke and Mirrors: The Anniversary Gift That Was Never Really Yours

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When Physical Abuse Becomes Dangerous: What You Need to Know

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Physical abuse is never acceptable. But some forms of physical violence cross a critical threshold where the risk of serious injury or death becomes very real. Knowing the signs of dangerous physical abuse can be the first step toward protecting yourself or someone you care about. What Is Dangerous Physical Abuse? Dangerous physical abuse refers to any act of violence… Read More When Physical Abuse Becomes Dangerous: What You Need to Know

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💰 “He Retired at 55 – I Just Didn’t Know It Was on My Back”

What Financial Abuse Really Looks Like (From the Inside Out) From the outside, he seemed charming. Retired early. Easygoing. Perhaps even generous in appearance. But behind the scenes, the truth was very different — and painfully familiar to so many survivors of emotional and financial abuse. While I was away in the UK, anxiously by my grandson’s… Read More 💰 “He Retired at 55 – I Just Didn’t Know It Was on My Back”

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🔥 When Abuse Is Premeditated: Not Chaos, But Calculation

✍️ By Linda C J Turner Therapy | Healing After Abuse Series One of the most painful truths I’ve had to accept in my healing journey is this:The abuse I endured wasn’t just emotional volatility. It was premeditated. Planned. Strategic. What I once dismissed as confusion or misunderstanding now looks painfully clear in hindsight.This wasn’t… Read More 🔥 When Abuse Is Premeditated: Not Chaos, But Calculation

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