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By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

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Self Care

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Accept Your Current Situation

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I am an amazing parent and grandparent

Come and join me in telling the world what an amazing parent/grandparent you are! I am creating a gallery of letters from all of you amazing parents and grandparents out there on this website to remind ourselves what great parents/grandparents we are. I have two children and have been the best parent and grandparent I… Read More I am an amazing parent and grandparent

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Why do I feel so bad?

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A Healing Journey

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Recovery Therapist

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What are you going to do right now?!

It doesn’t matter what happened in the past. The only thing that matters is what you are going to do RIGHT NOW! What are you going to do right now?!  

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Your FUTURE starts TODAY not tomorrow.

Use your past as fuel to take you wherever you need to go! If you ever look back, make sure it is only to DRIVE YOU FORWARD! Don’t blame others for YOUR situation. Rely on YOURSELF to create a new situation. Your FUTURE starts TODAY not tomorrow. Plan now, live now!

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No need to let your past hold you back.

No need to let your past hold you back. Surviving struggle illustrates the lessons you‘ve learned and makes you stronger if you let it.

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Our past doesn’t define who we are

Our past doesn’t define who we are, because we are not our past, but we are what we choose to be at this very moment. Somehow we have accepted the concept that our past define who we are, but the truth is that our past cannot define us, but we define ourselves through our behaviours… Read More Our past doesn’t define who we are

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    satyam rastogi on DreamsJanuary 28, 2026

    Wonderful post

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    Linda C J Turner on Are People Born Cruel — or Is Cruelty Learned?January 27, 2026

    Interesting timing — these conversations often surface when something is ready to be examined more closely. I hope the piece…

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    Paul - Cawston Greenway on Are People Born Cruel — or Is Cruelty Learned?January 26, 2026

    Gosh!! Loads to get my teeth into. I was having a similar topic of conversation with my wife just yesterday.…

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    Paul - Cawston Greenway on Thank You for Being Part of Our Journey! 💖January 25, 2026

    Good work :)

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