Confusion

I’m not attracted to confusion, inconsistency, or emotional games.

I’m drawn to a man whose actions align with his words. A man who communicates clearly, makes time, and shows his interest without hesitation. If you want me, I’ll know — because you’ll show it.

I don’t chase, guess, or compete for attention. My nervous system values safety, consistency, and presence. If someone disappears, avoids, or keeps me in uncertainty, I take that as information — not a challenge.

I choose clarity over chemistry without substance.

I choose integrity over potential.

I choose someone emotionally available, secure in himself, and capable of showing up fully.

If that’s not where you are, that’s okay — but I won’t wait in ambiguity.

Silence is an answer. Inconsistency is a decision.

And I move accordingly.

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner
By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

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