It’s honestly hilarious when someone lives so deep inside their own fantasy bubble that they genuinely believe you’ll never leave them…
unless, of course, “you have someone else.”
That’s not logic — that’s projection.
They judge you entirely by their own standards.
After all, this is the same brain that once berated the ex-wife for “going off with someone else,”
while also announcing:
- “I have a new girlfriend in Benissa.”
- “All the women at the tennis club are after me and want me.”
- “I may go back to my ex-wife, she still wants me.”
Neuroscience translation:
This isn’t self-esteem.
This is the brain running on pure delusion, unfiltered dopamine, and Olympic-level storytelling.
🧠 1. The Ego-Overload Loop
When someone repeats “everyone wants me,” the brain treats it like fact.
Repetition → reinforcement → delusion.
It’s like self-brainwashing, but with worse writing.
🧠 2. The Hypocrisy Blind Spot
Criticising the ex-wife for “doing exactly what I’m doing” is classic cognitive dissonance.
The brain literally blocks the contradiction to protect the self-image.
🧠 3. Fantasy/Reality Merge Syndrome
Saying “I have a new girlfriend in Benissa” doesn’t require evidence —
just confidence, imagination, and a complete disconnect from reality.
🧠 4. The ‘She’ll Never Leave’ Illusion
This is the funniest one.
When the brain repeats a belief long enough —
“she will never leave me” —
it becomes a neurological shortcut.
Not truth.
Just a comfortable lie.
So when you finally do leave?
The entire fantasy collapses like a badly built IKEA shelf.
And what’s the emergency explanation?
Not that you woke up, healed, grew stronger, and reclaimed your life —
no, it must be that “you had someone else.”
Because in their world, nobody leaves a legend.
The Real Punchline?
You didn’t leave because someone else wanted you.
You left because you finally wanted yourself.
And nothing shatters a delusion faster than a woman who walks out
with her dignity, her clarity, and her life back.
