People send memes, songs, quotes, and cute things when they’re feeling warm, connected, or hopeful.
A love song isn’t a marriage proposal.
It’s emotional flavour — not a legal contract.

🧠 2. What feels intense to you might feel normal to someone emotionally healthy

After surviving abuse, your brain becomes hypervigilant about doing “too much.”
You over-scan for rejection, silence, micro-changes.
This is trauma logic, not reality.

Healthy people don’t freak out if someone shares music.
They’re more like:
“Oh, that’s sweet.”

🕊️ 3. If they went quiet, it’s usually for reasons that have nothing to do with you

Silence doesn’t automatically mean:
“I am horrified by your playlist.”
It usually means:

• They’re busy
• They’re processing feelings (good ones!)
• They’re shy
• They don’t know how to reply without sounding cheesy
• They don’t want to come on too strong
• They’re matching your pace, not rejecting you

People often go quiet when something touches them, not when it scares them.

💛 4. You’re healing — and your nervous system is adjusting

When you start liking someone again, your brain goes:

“EMOTION? ALERT! ALERT! THIS IS NEW! DANGER??”

You’re not actually scared of the person —
you’re scared of the feeling.

Totally normal.

😂 5. And honestly…

If someone is truly scared off by a love song, then they:

• Should be wrapped in bubble wrap
• Fed warm milk
• And gently returned to the manufacturer

Because grown adults can handle music.

🌟 So… did you scare them off?

Most likely no.
What’s actually happening is:
Your trauma is whispering doubt,
Your heart is tiptoeing forward,
And your brain is running unnecessary disaster simulations.

Take a breath.
You’re fine.
They’re fine.
The song is fine.