Step by Step Guide

Here’s a step-by-step guide for safely reporting someone with violent fantasies and a history of abuse in the UK and Europe, including what authorities need to know:


Step 1: Assess Immediate Danger

  • Immediate threat: If the person has made specific threats, is acting violently, or you believe someone is at imminent risk:
    • Call emergency services immediately:
      • UK: 999
      • Europe (general): 112
    • Stay safe—do not confront the person directly.
  • Non-immediate threat: If the person talks about violent fantasies but no one is in immediate danger:
    • Move to Step 2.

Step 2: Document What You Know

Authorities need clear, factual information:

  • Exact words or behaviors observed
  • Dates, times, locations of incidents
  • Any history of physical abuse or threats
  • Any weapons, plans, or signs they might act on fantasies
  • Witnesses, if any

Keep documentation secure and private.


Step 3: Contact Appropriate Authorities

UK

  • Police Non-Emergency: 101
  • Crimestoppers (anonymous reporting): 0800 555 111
  • Local safeguarding teams: If children or vulnerable adults are involved
  • Mental health crisis services: NHS 111 (option 2 for mental health)

Europe (varies by country)

  • Emergency: 112
  • National police non-emergency lines: Each country has its own (e.g., Germany: 110 for police, France: 17 for police)
  • Anonymous tip lines: Many countries have anonymous reporting for threats
  • Mental health hotlines: Most countries have local suicide/crisis lines

You can also contact local threat assessment or public safety authorities if available (common in larger cities).


Step 4: Engage Mental Health Professionals

  • If safe to do so, mental health intervention can prevent escalation.
  • Share your documentation with licensed psychologists or psychiatrists, if appropriate.

Step 5: Protect Yourself and Others

  • Avoid being alone with the person
  • Alert close contacts or family if you feel they might be in danger
  • Consider temporary restraining measures if threats escalate

Step 6: Follow Up

  • Check that authorities are taking action
  • Keep documenting any new concerning behavior
  • Stay connected with support services for yourself

⚠️ Key Points

  • Do not confront someone showing violent fantasies if they have a history of abuse.
  • Authorities want specific, factual information, not general feelings or suspicions.
  • Safety first—prioritize protecting yourself and others.

— Linda C J Turner

Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment

©Linda C J Turner

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