šŸ›”ļøĀ Safe Reporting Checklist

For Survivors Who Feel Unsafe Reporting Illicit Images or Abuse

šŸ’” You don’t have to do everything at once. Start where you feel safest.
Your voice matters — and there are safe ways to act.


šŸ”¹ 1. Do Not Confront the Person

☐ Stay calm — do not accuse, question, or hint at what you know
☐ Avoid talking about the images or your suspicions directly
☐ Do not try to take their device or confront them in anger

🧠 Why? Violent individuals often escalate if they feel exposed or challenged.


šŸ”¹ 2. Record What You Saw — Safely

☐ Write down what you saw, when, where (date, time, location)
☐ Include names, app names, folder names, or how you came across it
☐ Save in a secure, password-protected notes app
☐ Do not store photos or evidence on shared devices

šŸ’” Tip: Email it to yourself or a trusted person with a neutral subject line (e.g. ā€œLegal Fileā€)


šŸ”¹ 3. Tell a Therapist or Lawyer Confidentially

☐ Ask for an emergency or covert session
☐ Use a code word or anonymous account if needed
☐ Let them know you fear retaliation and need support to plan safely

šŸ“Œ Why? Professionals can document concerns, help you plan an exit, and support legal reporting.


šŸ”¹ 4. Plan for Safe Reporting to Authorities

☐ Never report from a shared phone, device, or home
☐ Choose a trusted place: lawyer’s office, friend’s house, therapist’s clinic
☐ Contact the police only when you are away from the abuser

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šŸ”¹ 5. Create a Safety Plan

☐ Pack an emergency bag (ID, meds, cash, charger, keys)
☐ Share your plan with a trusted person
☐ Arrange a signal or code word in case you need help
☐ Know where you’ll go if you have to leave quickly (friend, shelter, hotel)


šŸ”¹ 6. Delete Digital Trails

☐ Clear call logs, browser history, chat messages
☐ Don’t save info on shared cloud drives or devices
☐ Use apps with disappearing messages or encrypted backups if needed


šŸ”¹ 7. Trust Yourself

☐ You are not overreacting
☐ You do not need hard proof to speak up
☐ Children’s safety — and yours — are worth protecting
☐ Reporting anonymously is still valid


šŸ“Ž Optional: Safe Resources to Add or Share


šŸ’¬ Caption for Sharing on Social Media (Safe Language)

Suspect someone dangerous has illicit images? Don’t confront them.
āœ”ļø Record what you saw
āœ”ļø Tell your therapist or lawyer
āœ”ļø Report from a safe location
āœ”ļø Delete your digital trail
Your safety comes first.
Download the ā€œSafe Reporting Checklistā€ or share it in your groups. šŸ’™


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