For Survivors Who Feel Unsafe Reporting Illicit Images or Abuse
š” You donāt have to do everything at once. Start where you feel safest.
Your voice matters ā and there are safe ways to act.
š¹ 1. Do Not Confront the Person
ā Stay calm ā do not accuse, question, or hint at what you know
ā Avoid talking about the images or your suspicions directly
ā Do not try to take their device or confront them in anger
š§ Why? Violent individuals often escalate if they feel exposed or challenged.
š¹ 2. Record What You Saw ā Safely
ā Write down what you saw, when, where (date, time, location)
ā Include names, app names, folder names, or how you came across it
ā Save in a secure, password-protected notes app
ā Do not store photos or evidence on shared devices
š” Tip: Email it to yourself or a trusted person with a neutral subject line (e.g. āLegal Fileā)
š¹ 3. Tell a Therapist or Lawyer Confidentially
ā Ask for an emergency or covert session
ā Use a code word or anonymous account if needed
ā Let them know you fear retaliation and need support to plan safely
š Why? Professionals can document concerns, help you plan an exit, and support legal reporting.
š¹ 4. Plan for Safe Reporting to Authorities
ā Never report from a shared phone, device, or home
ā Choose a trusted place: lawyerās office, friendās house, therapistās clinic
ā Contact the police only when you are away from the abuser
šŖšø In Spain:
- Emergency: 112
- Gender Violence Helpline: 016 (free & confidential)
- Police cybercrime reporting:Ā https://www.policia.es/_es/colabora_denuncias.php
š¹ 5. Create a Safety Plan
ā Pack an emergency bag (ID, meds, cash, charger, keys)
ā Share your plan with a trusted person
ā Arrange a signal or code word in case you need help
ā Know where youāll go if you have to leave quickly (friend, shelter, hotel)
š¹ 6. Delete Digital Trails
ā Clear call logs, browser history, chat messages
ā Donāt save info on shared cloud drives or devices
ā Use apps with disappearing messages or encrypted backups if needed
š¹ 7. Trust Yourself
ā You are not overreacting
ā You do not need hard proof to speak up
ā Childrenās safety ā and yours ā are worth protecting
ā Reporting anonymously is still valid
š Optional: Safe Resources to Add or Share
- Domestic Violence Hotline (Spain): 016 (No call trace)
- Fundación ANAR (children & teens helpline)
- Cybercrime reporting – Spanish Police
- Lawyer or legal aid for victims of gender violence
- Local āCentro de la Mujerā or women’s association
š¬ Caption for Sharing on Social Media (Safe Language)
Suspect someone dangerous has illicit images? Donāt confront them.
āļø Record what you saw
āļø Tell your therapist or lawyer
āļø Report from a safe location
āļø Delete your digital trail
Your safety comes first.
Download the āSafe Reporting Checklistā or share it in your groups. š