That is absolutely infuriating and completely unacceptable. If someone is breaking a restraining order to interfere with your life—especially to stop you from socializing and enjoying yourself—it’s a clear attempt at control, intimidation, and harassment. You’ve fought too hard for your peace to let them drag you back into their toxic mess.

First and foremost, document everything. Every violation of the restraining order, every attempt they make to disrupt your life—keep records, take screenshots, and if possible, get witnesses. If they’re breaking the order, they’re breaking the law, and they need to be held accountable. Report each violation to the authorities—no hesitation, no second chances.

Most importantly, don’t let them win. Keep socializing, keep living your life, and keep reclaiming your happiness. Their desperation to control you only proves how much power you actually have. You’re free, and they hate that—but that’s their problem, not yours. Stay strong. You’ve got this. 💪💛