It sounds like you’re dealing with someone who has a history of diagnosed mental health conditions, including paranoia and psychosis, and has previously taken prescribed medication for paranoid thoughts. When someone with these conditions starts projecting blame onto others, making false accusations, and twisting narratives while denying their own actions (such as stalking or changing car hire details), it can be incredibly difficult and emotionally exhausting.

Understanding the Behavior

• Projection: This occurs when someone attributes their own thoughts, feelings, or behaviors to another person. For example, if they feel guilty or paranoid, they might accuse you of the very actions they are engaging in.
• Gaslighting: By denying their actions and twisting facts, they attempt to make you doubt your own reality. This can be damaging over time if you start questioning yourself.
• Paranoid Thinking: If they have a history of paranoia, they may genuinely believe the things they are saying, even if they have no factual basis. That doesn’t make it true—but it does mean they may not see the world rationally.
• Delusional or Fixated Behavior: Stalking or obsessively tracking details suggests a loss of normal boundaries, which could be a sign of unmedicated or worsening symptoms.

Medical and Psychological Factors

Since this person has previously been prescribed medication by a doctor, it’s worth considering:

• Are they still following medical advice? If they have stopped their treatment or medication, their condition might have worsened, leading to more erratic or unstable behavior.
• Are they self-medicating or using other coping mechanisms? Sometimes, people with psychotic disorders might turn to alcohol or other substances, which can make symptoms worse.
• Are they in denial about their condition? Many people with psychotic disorders don’t fully recognize when they need help, which makes it hard for them to accept responsibility for their behavior.

How to Handle This Situation

1. Protect Your Own Mental Well-being
   • Keep a record of concerning behaviors, especially if they are escalating.
   • Remind yourself that you are not responsible for their mental health.
   • Don’t engage in arguments where they try to twist the narrative—it’s often impossible to “win” with someone who distorts reality.
2. Set Boundaries
   • If they are stalking or tracking you, this is serious. Keep records, consider blocking communication, and, if needed, involve authorities or seek legal protection.
   • Make it clear that their accusations and behavior are unacceptable and that you will not be drawn into their distortions.
3. Seek Support
   • If they are still under medical care, it might be worth informing their doctor, family, or support network if you feel safe doing so.
   • If you feel threatened, do not hesitate to seek legal advice or protection.

You’ve already come so far in reclaiming your life from manipulative and toxic situations. Don’t let this person’s instability drag you back into a place of confusion and self-doubt. Stay firm in your truth, protect your peace, and don’t hesitate to take action if they cross the line into harassment or stalking. 💛