Warning Signs of Sabotage

1. Sudden Intense Involvement:
   • The family member starts calling, visiting, or involving themselves far more than they ever did before.
2. Persistent Negativity About Your Partner:
   • They consistently criticize or express skepticism about your relationship.
3. Attempts to Control Decisions:
   • Offering unsolicited advice about your relationship or finances and pressuring you to act on it.
4. Isolation Efforts:
   • Discouraging you from spending time with your partner or suggesting you confide only in them.
5. Focus on Finances:
   • Inquiring about your financial arrangements, such as wills, assets, or joint accounts, under the guise of “looking out for you.”