It is not uncommon for people to mask their true character or hide their true feelings or intentions. This can be due to a variety of reasons, such as fear of judgment or rejection, a desire to fit in or be liked, or a need to protect oneself from perceived threats.

Here are some signs that someone may be masking their true character:

1. Inconsistent behavior: If someone’s behavior and words don’t seem to match up, it may be a sign that they are not being their true selves. They may be trying to act in a way that they think others want them to act, rather than being true to themselves.
2. Lack of vulnerability: If someone never shares their true feelings or opinions, or always presents a polished and perfect image, it may be a sign that they are hiding something. This can make it difficult to truly connect with them on a deeper level.
3. Avoiding conflict: If someone always seems to avoid conflict or difficult conversations, it may be a sign that they are not being honest about their true feelings or intentions. They may be trying to keep the peace or avoid confrontation, rather than being true to themselves.
4. Putting on a facade: If someone seems to have a different persona in different situations or around different people, it may be a sign that they are not being their true selves. They may be putting on a facade to fit in or impress others, rather than being true to themselves.

It is important to remember that everyone has their own reasons for masking their true character, and it may not always be a negative thing. However, if you feel like someone is not being their true selves, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with them and try to create a safe space for them to be themselves.

© Linda C J Turner